blossy

I hate more than anything when people are upset with me, and conveniently forget to tell me what is wrong. So then, 9 months later I found out that a silly stupid mistake that I made has caused this person to be pissed off at me and on top of this there is the fact that my husband and she are good friends and she misses him but feels as though I am keeping them from hanging out, what? I have no issue with her and really had she told me why she was pissed off at me I would have understood and apologized. Really, this is a my bad situation that has been turned into full force drama because of a mistake that I made something that would have been easily remedied. She has not returned *my* calls because she wants to talk to my husband...hello he has his own cell phone and I HAD no issue with her, until I find out that she is blaming me for her inability to be confrontational and her ineptitude at conflict resolution. SHE let it snowball, SHE decided that *I* was keeping *THEM* (my husband and her) from hanging out. SHE thought what happened was bad enough to react this way and SHE decided not to ask me to get the shit outta her car and toss it or something, that was ALL she had to do. Instead she turned it into a big deal and now, now I don't know if I want to be her friend because she actually LET this shit get to this point. For ALMOST A FUCKING YEAR she has not said word one to my husband and I. I called her after surgery I congratulated her on her pregnancy I have tried to stop in to see her and all where she works just to chat and SHE has blown me off and yet *I* am the one keeping her from hanging out with *MY* husband!?!?!?!?! WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SHIT????????????????