dont you hate it when she just cant finish nobbing when she started it....."oh I can't breathe, you about choked me", what a frustration.....never had been an issue now.....we hadn't been rubbing each other well lately for a while....I'm too independent and I can't find it in my heart to love again....well I guess maybe we should go our separate was now.....hadn't been going well anyway. She can't fill what I can't feel.....I hate being damaged goods.....damn you Jennifer..... 