Saturday Jul 30, 2005

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Die You Zombie Bastards! was one of the best movies EVER! i'm i'm pretty sure that everyone should see it...

also if anyone has any advice on this lemme know:

i've been hanging out with this girl a lot lately, she knows i'm into her and she keeps sugestting we do stuff that is couple type stuff, (e.g cannobie lake riding all the rides together, going out to eat, going to the movies, spliting the cost of a cd and owning it together.) but i asked her on a date a while back and she says she just wants to be friends... but it doesn't sound to me like she does... i have no clue what's going on.. if anyone can shead some light that'd be great. THANKS!
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astrobouy:
yeah...I'd go with what the SGs said, and also Ferret.

I've had a long history of falling for girls and ending up friends with them and it sucks.

Except one time. That time I did the whole asking her out thing like I had with the rest, and no shit, she said she wanted to be friends. arse. Then a week or two later, whilst really drunk, I gave her a kiss, and bingo! All sorted.

A while later I asked her why she said no when I'd asked before, she said 'because we already were going out and doing stuff, asking just ruined it'. Basically by asking her out it just made the situation awkward, unromantic and it demonstrated that I had no confidence. You could be bradd pitt, but without confidence (or at least pretending you have confidence) you may as well be the elephant man.

So do what Ferret says, the only time I managed to get out of the friend-zone was like that.

Good luck!
kucera:
From what it sounds like, you need to seek interest in someone else. Oddly enough that should be enough to bring her around. It will let her know you won't be her emotional handi-wipe without something in it for you.

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