Talk about a bad way to start a day...actually, you ARE gonna have ot talk about it yourself, because I just changed my mind and decided not to.
Instead, have any of the, say, 4 people who might read this tried to work a friendship with someone who you wanted more from? (Or vice-versa?) I've been friends with this girl for probably 5 months or so now (we dated for a short while right when we met, maybe a year and a half ago) and its fucking with me in a bad way. The friendship thing was great for a while, but as we've gotten closer, I've been getting pushed back to wanting her in the more fun way. I'd like to keep her as a friend, but its hard when she gets involved w/ a guy (and she's a bit of a slut, so this happens a lot), and, really, all the time. Anyone done this before and have any wisdom to pass on?
I'll be your best friend if I get some good advice.
Instead, have any of the, say, 4 people who might read this tried to work a friendship with someone who you wanted more from? (Or vice-versa?) I've been friends with this girl for probably 5 months or so now (we dated for a short while right when we met, maybe a year and a half ago) and its fucking with me in a bad way. The friendship thing was great for a while, but as we've gotten closer, I've been getting pushed back to wanting her in the more fun way. I'd like to keep her as a friend, but its hard when she gets involved w/ a guy (and she's a bit of a slut, so this happens a lot), and, really, all the time. Anyone done this before and have any wisdom to pass on?
I'll be your best friend if I get some good advice.
Honestly, though, if you're looking for a relationship she doesn't sound like she's ready for that if she's getting involved with different guys left and right.
I've never tried to make a friendship "more fun," but I've wanted to. In the end, I am glad I didn't. I have one friend who actively pursued something more from me while I was with an ex-boyfriend. Then after we broke up. Then when I was with someone else. I guess he just didn't know how to take no for an answer. If you push her, you're going to make it seem like her friendship isn't as important to you as hooking up with her. Girls really cherish platonic male friendships because they come so few and far between.