So, we make plans, then something comes up and you've gotta bail.
No problem.
We re-schedule.
We re-plan.
And again, you bail on me.
No worries.
But now, you want to get together with me?
It's entirely up to you to make the plans, and contact me when it's good for you. I'm not putting any effort into anything anymore.
You can make the plans.
Maybe I'll be able to make it.
Maybe I'll have double booked myself for that night, and I've gotta bail.
Does it matter? Obviously not, if you're not putting any effort into it either.
You drop hints of having an interest in me.
If you were reliable, then maybe I'd have an interest in you.
Now I just don't care.
I don't play games.
Who is this blog about? Someone who I know, but I don't. Everyone. No one. It's about those who think they can forget about me, then just pop up again and assume that nothing has changed. It's about those that think I'll always be available to hang out with when they've got nothing better to do. It's about those who put me away in the back of their mind, until I'm convient for them.
What makes you think I even want to hang out with you?
It's one thing to be forgetful from time to time. It's another to forget about me on a regular basis. If that's the case, why don't you just forget about me for good.
Forgot who I am? FUCK YOU....that's who I am.
Does any of this really matter? No, because those that forget me on a regular basis will also forget about this, and fall back into old habits. They'll forget when I tell them off. They'll forget that I have no interest in talking to them, and they'll try and get in touch with me.
Sure, I've gotten used to being forgotten about. But at least it lets me know who's worth keeping in touch with. I don't care if I'm forgotten. Obviously you're not worth my time if you can't remember to keep in touch with me. You're not worth my time if you can't remember that we had plans. You're not worth my time if you decide to bail on me time and time again.
You want to be worth my time? You'd better work for it. Then maybe I'll make time for you.
No problem.
We re-schedule.
We re-plan.
And again, you bail on me.
No worries.
But now, you want to get together with me?
It's entirely up to you to make the plans, and contact me when it's good for you. I'm not putting any effort into anything anymore.
You can make the plans.
Maybe I'll be able to make it.
Maybe I'll have double booked myself for that night, and I've gotta bail.
Does it matter? Obviously not, if you're not putting any effort into it either.
You drop hints of having an interest in me.
If you were reliable, then maybe I'd have an interest in you.
Now I just don't care.
I don't play games.
Who is this blog about? Someone who I know, but I don't. Everyone. No one. It's about those who think they can forget about me, then just pop up again and assume that nothing has changed. It's about those that think I'll always be available to hang out with when they've got nothing better to do. It's about those who put me away in the back of their mind, until I'm convient for them.
What makes you think I even want to hang out with you?
It's one thing to be forgetful from time to time. It's another to forget about me on a regular basis. If that's the case, why don't you just forget about me for good.
Forgot who I am? FUCK YOU....that's who I am.
Does any of this really matter? No, because those that forget me on a regular basis will also forget about this, and fall back into old habits. They'll forget when I tell them off. They'll forget that I have no interest in talking to them, and they'll try and get in touch with me.
Sure, I've gotten used to being forgotten about. But at least it lets me know who's worth keeping in touch with. I don't care if I'm forgotten. Obviously you're not worth my time if you can't remember to keep in touch with me. You're not worth my time if you can't remember that we had plans. You're not worth my time if you decide to bail on me time and time again.
You want to be worth my time? You'd better work for it. Then maybe I'll make time for you.
ladayen:
Some people are just extremely absent minded and forgetful. Some people just cant not being around people so it comes down to do I ditch on the person I'm with or cancel on the person I had plans with. Although you're right eventually, at some point or another you gotta say FUCK YOU