Stress and work...
There's alot of things in the world that affect people, a couple being favoritism and inequality. The best example I can give is work. There's always someone treated better than you and that gets away with more. Honestly it kinda sucks. I used to pull my hair out over what other people get away with and what other shifts where I work get done. At times, it maybe important to be vocal when these things happen, however, many times it only causes you to stress. I've learned more recently that I get paid by the hour, and I'm more about self worth. I do what I have to do while I'm there and who cares what other people or shifts get away with. As long as it doesn't affect me too much and I still get recognized for what i do, that's all that's important to me. That doesn't mean let people abuse rules to treat you badly, it just means, so what if someone sucks up and gets to slide occasionally. No, it's not right but eventually that person will get theirs. If it does bother you that much, sure try to do somethin about it, but if nothing happens let it go or quit. The less you complain about stupid shit that doesn't matter the more likely someone is gonna take you seriously when it does matter. Sometimes people come to me and complain about things, and alot of the time I totally understand, but don't let what you can't control eat you up. This doesn't mean, on the other hand, that I'm a push over. I know the rules, and in most cases even better than my boss. Four or five times in the last week or so he tried to get on to me or a coworker and I had to remind him what the rules are. Does that mean he's a bad boss, I'm not to say, but in most cases no. The point is, know your rights, and don't sweat the bullshit...
There's alot of things in the world that affect people, a couple being favoritism and inequality. The best example I can give is work. There's always someone treated better than you and that gets away with more. Honestly it kinda sucks. I used to pull my hair out over what other people get away with and what other shifts where I work get done. At times, it maybe important to be vocal when these things happen, however, many times it only causes you to stress. I've learned more recently that I get paid by the hour, and I'm more about self worth. I do what I have to do while I'm there and who cares what other people or shifts get away with. As long as it doesn't affect me too much and I still get recognized for what i do, that's all that's important to me. That doesn't mean let people abuse rules to treat you badly, it just means, so what if someone sucks up and gets to slide occasionally. No, it's not right but eventually that person will get theirs. If it does bother you that much, sure try to do somethin about it, but if nothing happens let it go or quit. The less you complain about stupid shit that doesn't matter the more likely someone is gonna take you seriously when it does matter. Sometimes people come to me and complain about things, and alot of the time I totally understand, but don't let what you can't control eat you up. This doesn't mean, on the other hand, that I'm a push over. I know the rules, and in most cases even better than my boss. Four or five times in the last week or so he tried to get on to me or a coworker and I had to remind him what the rules are. Does that mean he's a bad boss, I'm not to say, but in most cases no. The point is, know your rights, and don't sweat the bullshit...
taegan:
My job really pisses me off too. Even in this day, it still astounds me just how unequal shit can be in the workplace (and elsewhere). That's why I'm doing my best to get the fudge out of there..it isn't worth the heartache.
priscila:
hi
