Greetings sg land, I hope this finds you happy, prosperous and blessed!
I have been having a very lively conversation with a dear friend about monogamy vs polygamy.
I am (boringly) all for the notion of monogamy. I'm one of those girls whose brain cannot handle more than one penis and its attached complications at a time. My friend insists that polygamy is sign of more evolved individuals who are better equipped to express the notion of one love and all-is-one.
I would very much like to hear your thoughts on this matter without expressing too many of my own opinions, at least not initially, in this regard.
Anyone game?
Wishing you peace, love and understanding.
B
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catdad:
Good to see an update. Hmmm...so, how does your friend oversimplify the idea of introverts versus extraverts. The more evolved people believe in being friends with everybody? I think it would sort of come down to personal preference. I have no interest in having multiple partners. But, since I've been single for over seven years, I'd kinda be happy just having one partner. If she's an amazing friend and lover, I can't picture wanting more partners in my life. I guess if things lost their spark or one of us traveled a lot, so that we didn't get to spend much time together, there would be advantages to having additional partners to sort of fill in the gaps. But, I'm not sure the original relationship would be worth maintaining. It obviously wouldn't be the same relationship at that point. I still say it's up to the individuals which choice is right for them.
mkayal:
You know what's complicated? Highway travel. Plane flights are much more simple. Highway travel has way more problems and collisions. Planes take off and they avoid other planes. Way safer.