Is it just me, or does anyone else wish it were friday? Anyhoo...not too much confidence in the Lakers tonight....just not feeling it. (still hoping though)
Can anyone tell me why people are so flakey? I mean is anyones word worth anything anymore?.....I hate to be a downer...but people can be such a pain in the ass....are they worth it? Convince me please.
On a more positive note....I had a great evening at dog beach last night...the weather was awesome and no one was there....we had a blast. What is it about the ocean that makes everything else just fade away? Its the best escape I know.....can't imagine not living close to it.
I have decided to "let some people" go from my life...friends that don't really have, or want to make, the time to hang out at all....I mean whats the point? I have a couple friends who I have seen maybe 2 times in the past year.....why bother? People grow apart so quickly it seems, that when I do finally hang out with them....its like "who r u?" Am I alone on this? Help me out here...any advice would be appreciated.
I am taking a nice long lunch (like all my co-workers) and riding to the beach....that will make everything ok.
Peace. BP
Can anyone tell me why people are so flakey? I mean is anyones word worth anything anymore?.....I hate to be a downer...but people can be such a pain in the ass....are they worth it? Convince me please.
On a more positive note....I had a great evening at dog beach last night...the weather was awesome and no one was there....we had a blast. What is it about the ocean that makes everything else just fade away? Its the best escape I know.....can't imagine not living close to it.
I have decided to "let some people" go from my life...friends that don't really have, or want to make, the time to hang out at all....I mean whats the point? I have a couple friends who I have seen maybe 2 times in the past year.....why bother? People grow apart so quickly it seems, that when I do finally hang out with them....its like "who r u?" Am I alone on this? Help me out here...any advice would be appreciated.
I am taking a nice long lunch (like all my co-workers) and riding to the beach....that will make everything ok.
Peace. BP
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Don't give up on flakey people. Being one myself, I will say that it's not worth it in the long run. I'm always deciding at the last minute, that I'm not going to show up or anything, not even call. Sure it's a pain in the ass to my friends, but when I do decide to hang out, I'm in a great mood, and super rad to be around, so it's worth it for all those times I bailed out.
I've had to do a lot of the "letting people go" thing lately. It's not a bad thing and don't feel awful for doing it. People constantly change and grow. Your just not in the same place as you were when you "knew" those friends. What I've learned by doing this is that 90% of the time, those friends feel the same way as you do.
I'm glad you had a great time at the beach. I really miss being able to walk across the street to it like I did in FL. Your so lucky. I hope you caught some good waves.
Now if they're flaky on the subject of responsiblilties, that just pisses me off & slowly drops their status of friend until it is no longer.