barbquebutt

i was just kinda thinking, and decided that i wanted to make a list of certain things about certain girls that i find amazing and attractive.

so here's the list

*i want you to be able to think abstractly and imagine like me, but still have the ability to keep your head straight and have serious thought

*i don't want you to like everything that i like. hell, i want you to passionately HATE some things that i like. i need that feeling that we're not totally the same person.

*i want you to ask me what's wrong when i look like something is bugging me. even though you absolutely know that i wont tell you, i like knowing that you care enough to ask.

*i want you to have my same stupid and lame sense of humor. i want to know that you'll either laugh at my lame jokes, or think i'm funny because i'm so lame sometimes.

*i want you to love being held and cuddled. there is nothing in this world that i have more fun doing than just sitting with someone in my arms.

*i don't want you to think that sex is always on my mind. because it very rarely is.

*i want you to be as dedicated to me as i am to you. i am determined to get through all problems, because i wouldn't be with you if stupid tiffs were going to make me want you less.

*i want to know that my opinion matters to you. i don't expect you to agree all the time, but i want you to respect and consider it.

*i want you to know that YOUR opinion matters to ME. i take into account everything you say to me and deeply consider how my decisions affect you.

*i want to know that i can tell you i love you. i'm not one to jump into that, because unlike most people my age anymore, the word "love" still holds the highest regard. but when the time comes, and my heart makes a decision, i want to know that i can tell you that i love you without you resenting me.

*i want you to be a little out of shape. your belly is sexy as hell.

*i don't want you to take my side all the time. i want to know if you disapprove of something i do. now don't get me wrong, i don't want to be made to feel shameful by you. but when you think i do something wrong, i want you to tell me about it.

*i don't want you to try and impress me. if i'm with you, you've already impressed me as much as you need to. so you can rest assured, you don't need to impress me any further.

*i don't want you to think you have to try and be sexy. wear regular underwear for god's sake. i'm not going to wear SPECIAL SEXY underwear for you, so you can leave the thong at home. unless you prefer thongs, whatever floats your boat.

*i don't want you to feel like being with me or being affectionate with me is a chore. if you do, we have a problem. i want to hold you, kiss you, hold hands with you. if you don't want to do that with me, then we should be together.

*i want you to wear glasses instead of contacts, if you have the need. glasses give you a specialized flare, contacts make it seem like you're ashamed of that flare. plus, glasses are cute as hell.

*i want you to like movies like i do. i'm talking about ALL movies. good, bad, horror, comedy, action, drama....ALL OF THEM.

*i want you to be flattered by my advances. like flirting with you, or kissing you. i'm reeeeeally shy at heart, so doing those things, even to a girlfriend, takes soooo much effort and confidence from me.


well....that's about all i can think of right now. i'll probably add to it as i see fit. but, this is my perfect girl in text format.