I couldnt think of a really good idea for a blog, even after plenty of time spent thinking about it! So I decided I would let people know a little about me and my adult life, perhaps it will be boring but ill keep it brief and hopefully end up explaining why and where I am right now in life 
Where to begin? hmm well I started off in town called Broadstairs, going to school having cool friends. You know the normal but unfortunately I did have what I would call a life changing event when my best friend since 4 years of age suddenly died and I guess I never really let myself deal with it as I should have and instead of talking and making more friends I shunned the ones I had and just almost entirely stopped speaking which lol gave me the nickname of silent bob at college... I realize im not covering myself with glory or making myself sound amazingly cool but I was always taught if you don't tell the truth about yourself then you cannot tell it of others (strange saying I always thought)
so anyway I spent along time kinda being the social reject before I began to get back into the world as it was, and that was all down to what I can only say are the most amazing and patient people in the world - my friends - whom put up with so much lol I mean a guy who doesnt talk much and ignores you yet somehow they all stuck around
makes me proud I ever met them. Carrying on, after I began to pull myself together I met a girl she was really sweet and we ended up liking each other and spending as much time as possible together. Unfortunately she lived along way away so we began a long distance relationship and it went pretty well, I would have directly gone to uni near her but I had already applied so I had no choice -other than not going and wasting a year of education- but to continue. So I moved to London to attend university and I had fun, made some cool mates and I was getting great grades! but after a year and a half of this I found it hard to carry on the everyday uni life without feeling like I was missing my girlfriend and I decided we had to talk, so I took the next few days off and went to see her.
Long story short she was unhappy and wanted me to move closer maybe switch unis otherwise we would never survive, I agreed and understood her point so we decided to take some time to think and decide. In the end I moved and took some time to find a job and flat while applying for uni again. But as with most stories like this obviously it was never going to work and I ended up finding out that she had been unfaithful and we broke up and made up etc. (not going to get into the details as you may get bored!) back and forth for a few months before I decided this was no way to live and we just stopped talking and I cut off all contact, while I still cared deeply and didn't want to I understood we were not right and needed to be apart and I couldnt have her in my life even as a friend after because well maybe im petty but I just couldnt forgive her for being unfaithful even though I could understand in a strange way since we were far apart and she was lonely at times but it still hurt me none the less.
I am now living in Bristol and not really sure of my next move
im pretty adventurous and will most likely move to another place and explore the country or maybe even the world next 
Im not sue how that all sounded but I just thought it might be a good idea to have a little story of me on here
so people could get to know a little about me and my life.
Where to begin? hmm well I started off in town called Broadstairs, going to school having cool friends. You know the normal but unfortunately I did have what I would call a life changing event when my best friend since 4 years of age suddenly died and I guess I never really let myself deal with it as I should have and instead of talking and making more friends I shunned the ones I had and just almost entirely stopped speaking which lol gave me the nickname of silent bob at college... I realize im not covering myself with glory or making myself sound amazingly cool but I was always taught if you don't tell the truth about yourself then you cannot tell it of others (strange saying I always thought)
so anyway I spent along time kinda being the social reject before I began to get back into the world as it was, and that was all down to what I can only say are the most amazing and patient people in the world - my friends - whom put up with so much lol I mean a guy who doesnt talk much and ignores you yet somehow they all stuck around
makes me proud I ever met them. Carrying on, after I began to pull myself together I met a girl she was really sweet and we ended up liking each other and spending as much time as possible together. Unfortunately she lived along way away so we began a long distance relationship and it went pretty well, I would have directly gone to uni near her but I had already applied so I had no choice -other than not going and wasting a year of education- but to continue. So I moved to London to attend university and I had fun, made some cool mates and I was getting great grades! but after a year and a half of this I found it hard to carry on the everyday uni life without feeling like I was missing my girlfriend and I decided we had to talk, so I took the next few days off and went to see her. Long story short she was unhappy and wanted me to move closer maybe switch unis otherwise we would never survive, I agreed and understood her point so we decided to take some time to think and decide. In the end I moved and took some time to find a job and flat while applying for uni again. But as with most stories like this obviously it was never going to work and I ended up finding out that she had been unfaithful and we broke up and made up etc. (not going to get into the details as you may get bored!) back and forth for a few months before I decided this was no way to live and we just stopped talking and I cut off all contact, while I still cared deeply and didn't want to I understood we were not right and needed to be apart and I couldnt have her in my life even as a friend after because well maybe im petty but I just couldnt forgive her for being unfaithful even though I could understand in a strange way since we were far apart and she was lonely at times but it still hurt me none the less.
I am now living in Bristol and not really sure of my next move
im pretty adventurous and will most likely move to another place and explore the country or maybe even the world next Im not sue how that all sounded but I just thought it might be a good idea to have a little story of me on here
so people could get to know a little about me and my life.