I wanted to start the day with the worlds of gratitude to many member and ladies who supported our recent set but I just got a last drop as the reason to make this blog.
I a so pissed off to see negative, hate and toxic comments over and over again on SG sets so I need to ask you when SuicideGirls community became so toxic?
If you are SG paying member, it does not give you any rights to comment someone’s set with “this set idea is poor”, “your lips are ugly”, “you need more tattoos”, “you need edit better/less/more”. Imagine lady comes to your house and tells you “this place is ugly”, “you are too short”, “shave ur pubic hair”, “go to the gym” etc. It is not ok! And this is exactly how we feel when we read some of your comments.
SG supposed to be a safe space for models and members and such a comments does not help at all. Yes, you pay for your membership and you have an expectations, but it does not give you any right to criticize like that. It’s not critic it’s just toxic. Before send someone comment of how much you hate the post production of the set or give a so called friendly advice to find a better photographer, stop and try to imagine how much work and effort it takes for any of us to shoot a set. To create an idea, to find a location, photog, to pose, to actually show our bodies naked in internet. Think for a moment we do it for your viewing pleasure, think for a moment how little set get bough.
We are not a hundred of buks to be loved and desired for anyone but there are so many ladies and so many beautiful sets you can find and enjoy here on the website, why don’t you put your attention on thing you enjoy and stop sending toxic comments to sets/girls you do not like? or does it really makes your ego grow if you actually hurt someone in internet?!
Do not tell us we have a thin skin coz we are strong enough to ignore, but why tolerate the fact that someone come to take a shit on the floor in our houses? This is how your inappropriate comments under our sets makes us feel.
Stop spreading the hate, stop bullying each other, be kind to each other, be supportive or at least be smart enough to know when and where and what you can tell.
Every person have their own struggles, can feel insecure, why do you want us to feel even worser? Would you enjoy this kind of attitude to yourself? Can we spread kindness not toxic? If you like someone, let them know, support, make a blog about their sets or just show them your love in a comments. Believe me your words means a lot for us.
@rambo @missy @lemon @eirenne
