i just discovered today that my piercer had/has a SG account! and i have been a "friend" of his on SG since 2008, his account ended back in late 2009..... now i never realized or even thought he was familiar in seeing his SG account photos. earlier today i was looking at his Facebook photos a realized one of his profile pictures was the same as the one he used on here.....
not sure how i feel about this... all i can that keeps running through my mind is "does he recognize me? does he remember me from SG?" we have been going to his shop for the past 3 years, and not once did he mention anything to me about this site, then again i have always been at the shop with James (my fiance) maybe i am over reacting? honestly its no big deal, i expected this sorta thing to happen from time to time.
But it still feels odd.... and the next time i go in to get work done its gonna be in the back of my mind. wish i never figured this out....
honestly its not the end of the world for me, but you have to admit. if you were in my shoes, wouldnt you feel a little odd about it out too? it gets me thinking, how many other people have i meet or known that seen me on this site?
A few years back my family found out about my SG account via the creepy next door neighbor/stalker at my cousins house.. this creepy kid told my cousin he seen me on a nude site... (shit hit the fan, and to this day i still find myself defending my decisions to join SG)
Its a small world.
not sure how i feel about this... all i can that keeps running through my mind is "does he recognize me? does he remember me from SG?" we have been going to his shop for the past 3 years, and not once did he mention anything to me about this site, then again i have always been at the shop with James (my fiance) maybe i am over reacting? honestly its no big deal, i expected this sorta thing to happen from time to time.
But it still feels odd.... and the next time i go in to get work done its gonna be in the back of my mind. wish i never figured this out....
honestly its not the end of the world for me, but you have to admit. if you were in my shoes, wouldnt you feel a little odd about it out too? it gets me thinking, how many other people have i meet or known that seen me on this site?
A few years back my family found out about my SG account via the creepy next door neighbor/stalker at my cousins house.. this creepy kid told my cousin he seen me on a nude site... (shit hit the fan, and to this day i still find myself defending my decisions to join SG)
Its a small world.
i just discovered today that my piercer had/has a SG account! and i have been a "friend" of his on SG since 2008,
yeah... it's always the people that you don't want to see the site that will see it. especially the creepy neighbors that leer at you when you go get the mail. just remember that it's nothing to be ashamed of EVEN IF it was hardcore and it's not.
why not just ask your artist privately if it really bothers you. take him aside when you're alone and see if it was probably just because he didn't want your dude to think he was a lurker. maybe he had a bad experience on the site and didn't want to bring it up.
he might be freaking out just as much as you and it's really no big deal for either side.
good luck