Heh, glad you all agreed with me about the evil tutor lady. I was kinda afriad I was gonna hear "She's just condcerned for you educational being"
But yah, i maybe overreacted, but I just HATE peeople butting into my business. I prefer to tell things as I wish to rather than have it dragged out of me.
Thats why I requred alot of patience out of people, I am not always quick to tell people things. I usually tell it eventually but I take as much time as I need and if you can't deal with it than, oh well, tough.
Thats a problem with my parents too, they want me to tell them everything but I just won't. And my dad lets it get to him so much that he tried to guilt it out of me by telling me how I cause him stomache cramps and sleepless nights. That doesnt make me want to open up anymore. It just makes me ashamed of myself and make me want to shrug away from him even more. He tries to throw it back at me and be distant with me. But then he sees it doesnt work and comes back to being overbearing and Im never prepared for it. I have learned not to fall for the "Lets go for a ride" trick cuz the car is a dangerous place. He trap[s me in there and starts asking personal questions I don't want to answer.
It's not that I am trying to avoid my parents, I am just not the type of people so reveal everything. I just don't do it. It's nothing personal. They just have to accept it.
But yah, i maybe overreacted, but I just HATE peeople butting into my business. I prefer to tell things as I wish to rather than have it dragged out of me.
Thats why I requred alot of patience out of people, I am not always quick to tell people things. I usually tell it eventually but I take as much time as I need and if you can't deal with it than, oh well, tough.
Thats a problem with my parents too, they want me to tell them everything but I just won't. And my dad lets it get to him so much that he tried to guilt it out of me by telling me how I cause him stomache cramps and sleepless nights. That doesnt make me want to open up anymore. It just makes me ashamed of myself and make me want to shrug away from him even more. He tries to throw it back at me and be distant with me. But then he sees it doesnt work and comes back to being overbearing and Im never prepared for it. I have learned not to fall for the "Lets go for a ride" trick cuz the car is a dangerous place. He trap[s me in there and starts asking personal questions I don't want to answer.
It's not that I am trying to avoid my parents, I am just not the type of people so reveal everything. I just don't do it. It's nothing personal. They just have to accept it.
jamielee:
Lots of times parents don't understand the meaning of privacy and boundaries. I've been out of my parents' house for 4 years. I'm 23 years old, and my mom still wants to know everything that's going on in my life. I just pick and choose what she gets to hear. 