how fair is this.
he's saying that he doesn't know if we should be together anymore. again.
how am i supposed to deal with this?
how can you deal with someone who is so hot and cold?
one week he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, the next week we can't be together, the week after that he wants to be with me forever, no matter what ['for real this time'] and the week after that we shouldn't be together. again.
WHAT THE HELL.
how am i supposed to ever take his word for anything.
it's such bullshit.
this is amazingly unfair to me!
and okay, is this really that insane? he has this ex who he has a huge history with, his first love, they were together for three years, and it ended with intense heartbreak. now they're friends again, which bothers me, but i guess i have to deal with it. but she constantly is telling him how bad i am for him and how he should break up with me and i am not good enough for him, and she has never even met me. now she is COMING TO VISIT. i don't want him to hang out with her. is that REALLY so insane? is that REALLY just me being a controlling bitch? to me it's like... this is something that realllly makes me uncomfortable and hurts my feelings, so you'd think he'd just be considerate and rather not do that to me. but he's so adament about his "principles" that he fundamentally HAS to hang out with her, just to prove a point, just to ensure i am not trying to control him whatsoever.
am i really such a bitch? is it that uncommon and unreasonable for me to rather him not hang out with her?
worst.
day.
ever.
worst boyfriend ever?
at least he doesn't beat me.
he's saying that he doesn't know if we should be together anymore. again.
how am i supposed to deal with this?
how can you deal with someone who is so hot and cold?
one week he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, the next week we can't be together, the week after that he wants to be with me forever, no matter what ['for real this time'] and the week after that we shouldn't be together. again.
WHAT THE HELL.
how am i supposed to ever take his word for anything.
it's such bullshit.
this is amazingly unfair to me!
and okay, is this really that insane? he has this ex who he has a huge history with, his first love, they were together for three years, and it ended with intense heartbreak. now they're friends again, which bothers me, but i guess i have to deal with it. but she constantly is telling him how bad i am for him and how he should break up with me and i am not good enough for him, and she has never even met me. now she is COMING TO VISIT. i don't want him to hang out with her. is that REALLY so insane? is that REALLY just me being a controlling bitch? to me it's like... this is something that realllly makes me uncomfortable and hurts my feelings, so you'd think he'd just be considerate and rather not do that to me. but he's so adament about his "principles" that he fundamentally HAS to hang out with her, just to prove a point, just to ensure i am not trying to control him whatsoever.
am i really such a bitch? is it that uncommon and unreasonable for me to rather him not hang out with her?
worst.
day.
ever.
worst boyfriend ever?
at least he doesn't beat me.
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i have to agree with the other comments here, but i also understand what you're going through and admire your tenacity wrt the relationship. i just hope he wants to put as much effort into it as you're obviously willing to do.