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Many pschological explanations for homosexuality have been proposed over the years, but none of them have been supported. It has, however, been proved that being gay has nothing to do with "an absent father" or "emotional problems" or a "traumatic childhood", yet some people think this is true because of the overwhelming number of lesbians that have been sexually assualted in some way by a man. Sexual orientation does seem to be moderately heritable, particularly in men, but the genetic research was too inconclusive. This doesnt mean that you can "choose" to be gay or not to be ... so why do some people think along these terms?

I have no issues with gay people at all, what so ever. There is a huge issue right now going on about whether or not gays should marry. I think that homophobic people are just as closed minded as racists and should be treated the same. Any way you look at it ... it's HATE.

What I have troubles understanding ... is why certain gays "pretend" to be gay, when they really arent. I know not everyone has had experience being gay, and someone may want to experience it before they decide ... but even then, they should be upfront with their partners. Let them know that they are "curious" about it, and not just flat out lie and tell them "yeah, Im gay".

There is a question that arises so often that I cannot seem to ignore it. The question being: Do "BIsexual" people really exist? Some ppl seem to think that you can only go one way or the other, and if you claim to be "bi", you are merely confused. Cant someone fall in love with a person regardless of their gender? Cant we be equally attracted to men and women?

I cant seem to tell now a days who's for real and who isnt. Its surprising to me how many women say they are "gay" to impress their bf's or other peers. I have heard that when you possess "GAY-DAR" you can easily tell if someone is gay or straight. Either I dont have gay-dar, or mine is all out of whack. I cant tell you the number of times Ive met women who supposedly are attarcted to women, who just ARENT. Is it because being "bi" is the cool thing t do in this day and age?

And for christ sake ... why is it "cool" or "hot" when a woman is gay, but its gross when a man is gay? Isnt it the same thing?

What "classifies" as "sex" when it comes to lesbians and gays? Is it oral? Being penetrated? Sharing a glass of milk? Hehehehe

So I leave all you with so many questions and thoughts. Are YOU gay? Straight? BISEXUAL? BI- CURIOUS? Homophobic or homo sapien? Do u like to eat cheese with your wine? What color is your butt? I find that my ass is 3 shades lighter than my arms.

Bye now!