THE MISTAKE I MADE: GETTING TOO CLOSE TO HER
One thing my mother always taught me was about how to treat women. She'd always make an example of how my father would treat her and then give me a lesson in life about it. So, therefore, I began to get along with alot of females because of it. Being respectful.......like my mother would tell me to do. Being a nice guy.......like my mother would tell me to do.
But she would never tell me as I grew that, things could get complicated between males and females. She wouldn't tell me that some women that you will pick will not pick you. I would not find out til later that females like assholes and some of the ones I would go after would only go after those types. No matter what you do. No matter what you say. You will remain in the friend zone. And it doesn't matter if she said she liked you or didn't you. Or didn't even give you an answer.
You could give her the whole entire fuckin' world and she wouldn't look your way for all you know. But still.....it won't mean shit except for friendship while she chases some asshole you don't know who doesn't know her as well you know her (you're assuming the guy is an asshole). And you don't want to meet him. If she insists, you make that clear. Its bad enough you're collecting your thoughts on how to deal with this. You don't want to lose a friend.
But oh well, maybe......it will go away. For now, all I can do is make music to vent my pain and not let my emotions give me a disease.
p.s. ---- If read my last journal entry, that girl who I thought tried to play me, we worked it now....for now at least. LOL.
One thing my mother always taught me was about how to treat women. She'd always make an example of how my father would treat her and then give me a lesson in life about it. So, therefore, I began to get along with alot of females because of it. Being respectful.......like my mother would tell me to do. Being a nice guy.......like my mother would tell me to do.
But she would never tell me as I grew that, things could get complicated between males and females. She wouldn't tell me that some women that you will pick will not pick you. I would not find out til later that females like assholes and some of the ones I would go after would only go after those types. No matter what you do. No matter what you say. You will remain in the friend zone. And it doesn't matter if she said she liked you or didn't you. Or didn't even give you an answer.
You could give her the whole entire fuckin' world and she wouldn't look your way for all you know. But still.....it won't mean shit except for friendship while she chases some asshole you don't know who doesn't know her as well you know her (you're assuming the guy is an asshole). And you don't want to meet him. If she insists, you make that clear. Its bad enough you're collecting your thoughts on how to deal with this. You don't want to lose a friend.
But oh well, maybe......it will go away. For now, all I can do is make music to vent my pain and not let my emotions give me a disease.
p.s. ---- If read my last journal entry, that girl who I thought tried to play me, we worked it now....for now at least. LOL.