BAH
Why can I never get told the straight truth from the start??? Is it because there are girls out there who would flip at the littlest things and I'm the one in a gajillion that wouldn't???
Here let me tell you about me..... I am probably one of the most laid back girls that you will ever know. The things that most girls get soooo upset about....I usually shrug off. No, really....I'm serious. The one thing that I ask is to be upfront and honest with me from the start. Just tell me! I mean I'm not saying I don't get upset at stuff, I just put it all in perspective....and usually realize it's not worth getting upset over, because at least you told me.
Now let me continue to clarify....If you were to cheat on me and tell me, I'd be pissed. It would probably be over. DON'T BREAK MY TRUST....now I'll give you points that you had the balls to tell me and would be more pissed if I found out through someone else, but I will tell you in simple terms that it's over. Now I'm not saying I don't ever want to talk again (although I may not want to talk for a little bit) but I've gotten passed it and remained friends with an ex who cheated on me. I understand people make mistakes, but honestly....if you told me you were thinking about fucking some other girl before you went through with it, I'd probably tell you to see if she'd be up for a 3some. No joke. Now if you're starting to fall for someone else....tell me that you're unsure of our relationship, I'm willing to work with it....
THAT BEING SAID....
I had a good weekend. Got to spend some quality time with my "little sisters" and actually went to church (GASP...I know). It was kinda awkward... a raised Unitarian/Agnostic going to mass at the Catholic church... I went because the 12yo was singing...man is there a lot of stand up/sit down.....
Friday I had hung out with my best friend who was back up in Bradford from Philly (I haven't seen her since April) and then Saturday did pretty much nothing till dinner. The 17yo and I grabbed a couple movies and some popcorn and spent the night in. (Yay for Zach and Miri being filmed in the 'Burgh; and don't rent "The Messengers 2") Then today was church and breakfast, then some driving around since it was nice, then hanging out till dinner, then leaving to drive back down.
I'm probably gonna get to bed soon since tomorrow I'm going to the wave pool with a friend and the kids at the daycare she's interning for. Should be fun....hopefully I'll get tan!
Night SG land
Why can I never get told the straight truth from the start??? Is it because there are girls out there who would flip at the littlest things and I'm the one in a gajillion that wouldn't???
Here let me tell you about me..... I am probably one of the most laid back girls that you will ever know. The things that most girls get soooo upset about....I usually shrug off. No, really....I'm serious. The one thing that I ask is to be upfront and honest with me from the start. Just tell me! I mean I'm not saying I don't get upset at stuff, I just put it all in perspective....and usually realize it's not worth getting upset over, because at least you told me.
Now let me continue to clarify....If you were to cheat on me and tell me, I'd be pissed. It would probably be over. DON'T BREAK MY TRUST....now I'll give you points that you had the balls to tell me and would be more pissed if I found out through someone else, but I will tell you in simple terms that it's over. Now I'm not saying I don't ever want to talk again (although I may not want to talk for a little bit) but I've gotten passed it and remained friends with an ex who cheated on me. I understand people make mistakes, but honestly....if you told me you were thinking about fucking some other girl before you went through with it, I'd probably tell you to see if she'd be up for a 3some. No joke. Now if you're starting to fall for someone else....tell me that you're unsure of our relationship, I'm willing to work with it....
THAT BEING SAID....
I had a good weekend. Got to spend some quality time with my "little sisters" and actually went to church (GASP...I know). It was kinda awkward... a raised Unitarian/Agnostic going to mass at the Catholic church... I went because the 12yo was singing...man is there a lot of stand up/sit down.....
Friday I had hung out with my best friend who was back up in Bradford from Philly (I haven't seen her since April) and then Saturday did pretty much nothing till dinner. The 17yo and I grabbed a couple movies and some popcorn and spent the night in. (Yay for Zach and Miri being filmed in the 'Burgh; and don't rent "The Messengers 2") Then today was church and breakfast, then some driving around since it was nice, then hanging out till dinner, then leaving to drive back down.
I'm probably gonna get to bed soon since tomorrow I'm going to the wave pool with a friend and the kids at the daycare she's interning for. Should be fun....hopefully I'll get tan!
Night SG land
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sorry to hear guys aren't being up front with you that's always a downer, other than that sounds like you had a good weekend kudos to you!