Once again I'm at the hopelessness stage. I don't want to end this. I feel like he's just waiting for me to give up and leave. I don't want to.
This has been frustrating for more than just he and I. My parents are frustrated and concerned. Our land ladies (who have been family friends since I can remember) are frustrated. My friends are frustrated....
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This has been frustrating for more than just he and I. My parents are frustrated and concerned. Our land ladies (who have been family friends since I can remember) are frustrated. My friends are frustrated....
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I'M SO FRUSTRATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I understand it's a tough situation, but it's been almost 2 weeks and he still doesn't know where we stand. I can't do this much longer.
At this point I need to know what the fuck is going on in his head!
I want him, but I'm not one to just sit around waiting....I need to know whether I'm moving on or...
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I understand it's a tough situation, but it's been almost 2 weeks and he still doesn't know where we stand. I can't do this much longer.
At this point I need to know what the fuck is going on in his head!
I want him, but I'm not one to just sit around waiting....I need to know whether I'm moving on or...
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I've hit the "hopeless" part of this battle.
He's being very passive aggressive with this whole ordeal. I don't know what is going on. He ignores my questions to talk. I haven't slept in the apartment for a week. I haven't even looked at him for just as long. At this point I don't think he was ever "sorting out his feelings." I think he's...
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He's being very passive aggressive with this whole ordeal. I don't know what is going on. He ignores my questions to talk. I haven't slept in the apartment for a week. I haven't even looked at him for just as long. At this point I don't think he was ever "sorting out his feelings." I think he's...
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spirit_bear:
I am sorry that things are so negative...
I do not know your situation so please take this for what it is but just know that when relationships begin to struggle men and women usually view this in different ways.
Men typically think "I have X amount of time in this relationship. It doesn't seem to be working I am not wasting anymore time"
Women typically think "I have spent X amount of time in this relationship and no matter how bad it is currently I do not want all of that time to be for nothing"
I am not saying either is wrong just make sure that before you give your everything to be hurt that it is truly what is best for you.
Best of luck
I do not know your situation so please take this for what it is but just know that when relationships begin to struggle men and women usually view this in different ways.
Men typically think "I have X amount of time in this relationship. It doesn't seem to be working I am not wasting anymore time"
Women typically think "I have spent X amount of time in this relationship and no matter how bad it is currently I do not want all of that time to be for nothing"
I am not saying either is wrong just make sure that before you give your everything to be hurt that it is truly what is best for you.
Best of luck
spirit_bear:
That is a tough situation... unfortunately I do not have a magical solution for you...
The best advice I can say is to try and step outside of the situation. Forget what your context and meaning behind sending the pictures and see how you would honestly react if you found he was sending nude pictures of himself...
As far as the lack of communication...as long as you are trying to open up dialog that is unfortunately all you can do. You cannot make him talk nor share his feelings. You can just give him his space and try to be there when he does decide to open up...
The best advice I can say is to try and step outside of the situation. Forget what your context and meaning behind sending the pictures and see how you would honestly react if you found he was sending nude pictures of himself...
As far as the lack of communication...as long as you are trying to open up dialog that is unfortunately all you can do. You cannot make him talk nor share his feelings. You can just give him his space and try to be there when he does decide to open up...
I've lost roughly 10 lbs since Saturday......
I don't even know what to do. I'm possibly losing the best thing to happen to my life. I don't want this to happen. It's just a waiting game. I don't know what I'll do if we can't work this out.
I don't usually like the pop artists nowadays, but this song is so how I feel right now.
I would do anything for him....
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I don't usually like the pop artists nowadays, but this song is so how I feel right now.
I would do anything for him....
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So I kind of fucked up my wonderful relationship.
It probably started a few months ago, with things that I didn't realize I was doing. He kept his feelings in and let them build and then he stopped trusting me about a month ago and today decided to go through my e-mail.
Of course I had sent a hood piercing picture to a guy I've...
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It probably started a few months ago, with things that I didn't realize I was doing. He kept his feelings in and let them build and then he stopped trusting me about a month ago and today decided to go through my e-mail.
Of course I had sent a hood piercing picture to a guy I've...
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dpgc44:
April 
skwhale:
glad your back <3....as far as the boy goes i would say tray and patch things up if you really feel like you're head over heels for the guy. A lot of times if someones not acting to sexually attracted to you it could be because of all the issues you're both having in the emotional relationship side of things. I do the EXACT same thing to my fiance, snap at him and realize how bitchy i was being and see the hurt expression on his face and then quickly apologize..realize it's just my stress and that i snap at him because i know he loves me and will forgive me (that's a common thing i've learned through psych classes) you should figure out what makes you snappy and try to relieve that internal tension!
So....I'm back....for at least a month anyway. Just kind of getting bored with the tumblr and facebook. I miss the naked's!!!!
<3
<3
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nolen:
woop!
ollyp:
Welcome back!
My account dies soon....I am not re-upping my account....I just don't find myself using the site as often as I used to...I will miss everyone and maybe if it's free at some point I'll come back.
Everyone have a wonderful New Year and beyond!!!
<3 you all!!!!
Everyone have a wonderful New Year and beyond!!!
<3 you all!!!!
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skullgrid:
awww darn
camshaft:
you will be sorely missed!
Have a great 2011 and hopefully our paths will cross again.
Have a great 2011 and hopefully our paths will cross again.
In Phoenix with the Eskimo for the holiday. The security line in Pittsburgh wasn't bad. They do have 2 body scanners, but the other lines have just the normal metal detectors. I was going to be in a body scan line, but one of the officers told me to hop in the shorter, metal detector line, so I did! It took us under an hour...
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jace:
Are you trying to make it a Merry Christmas for whoever gives you the pat down?
mindance:
Well fuck you will only be an 8 hour drive from me. Make it happen and come visit.
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semiretiredpunk:
My ex called mine the Pope.
fatkidlovescake:
hahaha awesome.
swbdog:
Hope you feel better soon -- it seems the plague is running rampant this fall. I'm 3 weeks into a bout with pneumonia, and still have a way to go. Hope whatever has you under the weather passes quickly.