So after yesterday, my blog is in serious need of updating! If you don't care and you just came here for hot chicks, scroll down
Anyways, so here's what happened in the last few days. Basically, Lucas and I had always said that we wanted to legally establish our dual paternity over Raegan (since we weren't married when we had her) basically as a 'just in case kind of thing'. So when we split up a month ago, he set the paperwork into motion. I got served with the paperwork last week and my parents immediately went into defense mode.
They told me that he was trying to take the baby away from me and that he was going to fuck me over and leave me and taken Raegan and that I need to counter sue him for full custody so I can sue him for child support down the road.
I told them I didn't want to do that. That even if we couldn't make things work, that he's a good father and I don't want to keep Raegan away from him. Apparently that wasn't the answer they wanted.
Lucas and I had had a talk last Friday about me moving back home soon and trying to work things out, so that was already set into motion. Basically my mom was upset, and I knew she would be, but I have my mind made up. And I knew it would happen, she said if I'm going to live in her house, and be covered under their health insurance and car insurance, and have them pay for my college, that i need to take full custody of Raegan. No discussion, that i have to do what they want.
I told them both that they were being completely unreasonable, that this was Lucas and I's baby and that it was our decision. Sooo....yeah. I live with Lucas now and my parents have all but disowned me. I'm pretty sure I'm going to end up losing the $500k the set aside for me in the will. That stings. Honestly, I'm really upset about the whole thing, but I'm focusing on the positive.
Right now Lucas and I are happy, we're together, and we finally have our family. Yeah, things are going to be difficult without my parents' help, but i actually feel like we can make it through this. We're even talking about our old plan of eloping in Vegas So, you win some, you lose some, but right now I'm at least gaining something amazing. Fingers crossed that this all ends in happily ever after ♥
(also, more recent update, Lucas made me the most awesome little "work from home" office out in the garage for when I have to work on the weekends. He moved the dining room table out here for me, put out a scented candle and the computer and my phone and a little cup with pens in it It really is the little things, he is so sweet!)
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These are some seriously fucking hot sets that are in member review right now that I just can't get enough of!
Drave & Porphyria in Made you blush ♥
Hopeful Tweedle in Still Life ♥
DeeDee in The Red Light ♥
Hopefuls Embla & Annunaki in Urban Legend ♥
Hopeful Nietzsche in scratches ♥
Smash in kill your idols ♥
Kraven & the Chicago SG's in Sin In The Second City ♥
Anyways, so here's what happened in the last few days. Basically, Lucas and I had always said that we wanted to legally establish our dual paternity over Raegan (since we weren't married when we had her) basically as a 'just in case kind of thing'. So when we split up a month ago, he set the paperwork into motion. I got served with the paperwork last week and my parents immediately went into defense mode.
They told me that he was trying to take the baby away from me and that he was going to fuck me over and leave me and taken Raegan and that I need to counter sue him for full custody so I can sue him for child support down the road.
I told them I didn't want to do that. That even if we couldn't make things work, that he's a good father and I don't want to keep Raegan away from him. Apparently that wasn't the answer they wanted.
Lucas and I had had a talk last Friday about me moving back home soon and trying to work things out, so that was already set into motion. Basically my mom was upset, and I knew she would be, but I have my mind made up. And I knew it would happen, she said if I'm going to live in her house, and be covered under their health insurance and car insurance, and have them pay for my college, that i need to take full custody of Raegan. No discussion, that i have to do what they want.
I told them both that they were being completely unreasonable, that this was Lucas and I's baby and that it was our decision. Sooo....yeah. I live with Lucas now and my parents have all but disowned me. I'm pretty sure I'm going to end up losing the $500k the set aside for me in the will. That stings. Honestly, I'm really upset about the whole thing, but I'm focusing on the positive.
Right now Lucas and I are happy, we're together, and we finally have our family. Yeah, things are going to be difficult without my parents' help, but i actually feel like we can make it through this. We're even talking about our old plan of eloping in Vegas So, you win some, you lose some, but right now I'm at least gaining something amazing. Fingers crossed that this all ends in happily ever after ♥
(also, more recent update, Lucas made me the most awesome little "work from home" office out in the garage for when I have to work on the weekends. He moved the dining room table out here for me, put out a scented candle and the computer and my phone and a little cup with pens in it It really is the little things, he is so sweet!)
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These are some seriously fucking hot sets that are in member review right now that I just can't get enough of!
Drave & Porphyria in Made you blush ♥
Hopeful Tweedle in Still Life ♥
DeeDee in The Red Light ♥
Hopefuls Embla & Annunaki in Urban Legend ♥
Hopeful Nietzsche in scratches ♥
Smash in kill your idols ♥
Kraven & the Chicago SG's in Sin In The Second City ♥
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that means alot
Im not sure, I shall ask her tonight if
she's at work (although I have a feeling
she's away at a concert..) Just for you!
Ooooo, we could go hunting for kiwis!
Like, nice hunting, as in we want to
cuddle 'em, not kill 'em. Lol.
Much planned for the
weekend?