Damn, people move so fast in life. Where are they fitting in time to enjoy the simple things? I was poking around the FB and saw how many of the kids I grew up with (at one point or another) had kids, were married, etc. And I'm thinking to myself, 'damn, I've been with the same person for over 7.5 years and you don't see me popping out babies.' We're still in the stage of just enjoying our time together. I'm not in any position to raise a child, or to support one. I love kids, and I'm great with them, but being a Mommy at 22? No thank you!
Which reminds me of the conversation N, J, & I had about the real LOVE not luv. I feel like it's such a deep feeling, one that yes, can be felt instantly (or at least the shadow of it) but it needs to be nurtured and explored before you can bring forth offspring. I feel like there is no respect given to the phenomena anymore. Anyone can say it to any old body, and expect to be take seriously without ever really understanding the depth.
Makes me kinda ill.
Which reminds me of the conversation N, J, & I had about the real LOVE not luv. I feel like it's such a deep feeling, one that yes, can be felt instantly (or at least the shadow of it) but it needs to be nurtured and explored before you can bring forth offspring. I feel like there is no respect given to the phenomena anymore. Anyone can say it to any old body, and expect to be take seriously without ever really understanding the depth.
Makes me kinda ill.