I haven't spent much time as a single lady, and everyone keeps promising I'll love it and that's it's great. You know aside from the crippling loneliness. But so far my biggest annoyance with the whole thing is that I can never tell when a guy is interested in a relationship or just sex.
Sometimes it's really obvious, I get douchelords on tinder asking "hi how are you wanna watch a movie at my house" and I think that speaks for itself. But what about the ones who you have known for a while? Someone who has met you a few times and has more tact than a stranger. Those are the ones who compliment on your personality and looks, want to have coffee, want to know how your day went. These boys confuse the hell out of me! It's impossible to know what their aim is. And there no way I'm asking a guy who has just taken and interest in me if he's looking for a relationship.
