Apparently "sexy" has standards. Why? Because society has a small...ego and needs a lot of stroking to make it worth looking ag. No, for reals, sexy is sex. Sex is a primal human urge and we seek it over any other primal need. If something triggers a sexual response it's sexy, whether society has taught you to ignore it or be ashamed of it.
I'm sexy because I know when I walk into a room, regardless of body weight, height, or body composition I have nearly every mans attention. I live and breath sex and it's not because I need it to validate myself as a female, but because I know how to be sexy and I enjoy it. I don't back down to insecure women with something to prove, I have NEVER used a man to build my self confidence and I never will. I'm sexy because I know who I am and I know what I want and I will NEVER settle for less.
Sexy is being your true self and not giving a fuck what society thinks. You do you and keep moving forward so the world can benefit from your strength and positivity. I'm right there with you.