Okay, weekly update here... I did better at work this week, monetarily and the way I look. I make alot of cash and am surprised I've saved $600 of it already. I will need it to make a deposit on a new apartment somewhere in brooklyn and help pay for school and living expenses. They cut my financial aid so severely this year, I used to have a scholarship that nearly covered tuition, now I have enough for one semester... and god knows my family doesn't have much money. I also still plan on going to San Fransisco in mid-August.
Here is my stripper story of the week. There's this middle-aged guy who's always at the bar adjacent to the club I work in and he always gets VIP rooms with this one dancer I'm friends with, but she told me he's getting wierd and possibly a bit obsessive, saying he needs to have a relationship with her outside the club. The other night he kept pressuring her to go out to breakfast with him when she got out of work and she kept trying to politely decline. But then she was just like "I gotta take someone home so NO" Anyway, she went to drive me home and he followed us... fucking so scary. We tried to lose him on the highway, but he was driving a range rover so it wasn't like we could get away. We eventually went through a McDonald's drive thru where we ordered food and told the guys at the window this dude was following us and to stall him at all costs so we could get away. Thank god he was stupid enough to also order food and we drove away while he waited for it. Now I'm really scared to see him again and scared for my friend who he's obsessed with. This experience made me realize the kind of dangers connected with the job. Plus I had a bad experience with this guy who asked me (and my friend every time she works) to pay her for sex. We finally just had the bouncer explain to him that was not possible to get here and ask him to leave. He was angry and waited outside the club and yelled something at us while we got in our car. Thank god for bouncers at least.
Anyway, I do want fans from SG to visit me at work if they want to, but this is a warning to anyone who comes to the club with the intention of hanging out with me after work or stalking me or any other malicious intent, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN. As a woman who's aware of the kind of risks there are out there for me, I have to say this, I have to protect myself and I CAN. So if you're creepy STAY AWAY!
Here is my stripper story of the week. There's this middle-aged guy who's always at the bar adjacent to the club I work in and he always gets VIP rooms with this one dancer I'm friends with, but she told me he's getting wierd and possibly a bit obsessive, saying he needs to have a relationship with her outside the club. The other night he kept pressuring her to go out to breakfast with him when she got out of work and she kept trying to politely decline. But then she was just like "I gotta take someone home so NO" Anyway, she went to drive me home and he followed us... fucking so scary. We tried to lose him on the highway, but he was driving a range rover so it wasn't like we could get away. We eventually went through a McDonald's drive thru where we ordered food and told the guys at the window this dude was following us and to stall him at all costs so we could get away. Thank god he was stupid enough to also order food and we drove away while he waited for it. Now I'm really scared to see him again and scared for my friend who he's obsessed with. This experience made me realize the kind of dangers connected with the job. Plus I had a bad experience with this guy who asked me (and my friend every time she works) to pay her for sex. We finally just had the bouncer explain to him that was not possible to get here and ask him to leave. He was angry and waited outside the club and yelled something at us while we got in our car. Thank god for bouncers at least.
Anyway, I do want fans from SG to visit me at work if they want to, but this is a warning to anyone who comes to the club with the intention of hanging out with me after work or stalking me or any other malicious intent, IT WILL NOT HAPPEN. As a woman who's aware of the kind of risks there are out there for me, I have to say this, I have to protect myself and I CAN. So if you're creepy STAY AWAY!
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stay safe, ok?
but I am going to be doing a paper on suicide girls and the feminist community. and I just wanted to interveiw alot of the suicide girls to see what their feelings were, and how they have found room for both communities.
so if you could get back to me on that at vocal_feminist@Hotmail.com that would be great. also you don't have to put it as a priority, take your time