***Post Date Update
Vote Tally:
#1, 14 votes
#2, 9 votes
#3, 1 vote
So, I went on the date, and had to be nice ...
(side note: I actually planned on a #2 approach, but I had to abide by the SG decision. The moderator of the 'Dating Sucks' group loves the idea, we make it into a "Reality SG" theme, this one "Reality SG: Dating")
I arrived at the bar (it's a 1st date, drinks only!), and noticed immediately - she was cuter than the photo I had seen. This made plan #1 much easier. I laid into the gentleman routine, asked all sorts of 'high gain' questions, etc...conversation flowed.
(note: if any of you have met me in person, conversation is not a difficult goal for me, unless Im 11 drinks into the night).
Only 2 items seemed to break a ripple on what was essentially a nice quaint date - Topic A, that her best friend is getting divorce after an 8 month marriage, & hasnt had sex in 4 months, and that I asked if I could get her phone number, & Topic B, that lipstick is in fact made with fish scales. I can throw in a Topic C, that she has no appreciation for Woody Allen, but that's neither here nor there.
Yes, our conversation ranged from Woody Allen films to driving standard shift cars, to what she has done in an elevator, to work stuff, to fish scales, all the way to position in the bed / where we sleep, to the worst travel experiences in a foriegn country. When I put my mind to it, I am quite the funny, intersting guy.
Overall, not a bad date. If either of us were attracted to the other, I'd see a potential for a 2nd date. Since I need me some sex, I may in fact call her for a 2nd date anyhow.
Your thoughts??
***Tonite's Date Update
Ok, now onto the NEXT date (yes, I have 3 dates this week, 3 days in a row. Let's see in next week's journal if I even have 1 date):
She's a jewish hippie chick, ad I answered on craigslist, recently moved to NYC, and apparently has some interesting stories about how she's lived in 2 or 3 'communes' (albeit 1 of them was a kibbutz - ask & I will explain if you need it).
I have her picture, and I do happen to think she's cute. But, this brings us to another topic: I think she looks like a femme lesbian. I'm totally ok with that. Shit, Im ok with her looking like a butch dyke. I just find it very amusing that either I'm attracted to lesbians, or they are attracted to me or something.
Of the past 6 women I've been with, 3 were either gay or bi-turned-gay, and 1 was bi. I just dont get it.
In fact, I showed MyDogFarted the photos of 2 women: 1 was tonite's date, the other was the lesbian sex slave I was sleeping with last month. I asked him to guess which is which. After some trepidation, he selected tonite's date as the lesbian. From now on he'll remember to bring me with him to all the lesbian bars he goes to - even if they will steal MLE's camera.
So, off to the salt mines of dating life again tonite....I'm not sure what to discuss with her, Im feeling quite tapped from last night..Anyone have any ideas??
Vote Tally:
#1, 14 votes
#2, 9 votes
#3, 1 vote
So, I went on the date, and had to be nice ...
(side note: I actually planned on a #2 approach, but I had to abide by the SG decision. The moderator of the 'Dating Sucks' group loves the idea, we make it into a "Reality SG" theme, this one "Reality SG: Dating")
I arrived at the bar (it's a 1st date, drinks only!), and noticed immediately - she was cuter than the photo I had seen. This made plan #1 much easier. I laid into the gentleman routine, asked all sorts of 'high gain' questions, etc...conversation flowed.
(note: if any of you have met me in person, conversation is not a difficult goal for me, unless Im 11 drinks into the night).
Only 2 items seemed to break a ripple on what was essentially a nice quaint date - Topic A, that her best friend is getting divorce after an 8 month marriage, & hasnt had sex in 4 months, and that I asked if I could get her phone number, & Topic B, that lipstick is in fact made with fish scales. I can throw in a Topic C, that she has no appreciation for Woody Allen, but that's neither here nor there.
Yes, our conversation ranged from Woody Allen films to driving standard shift cars, to what she has done in an elevator, to work stuff, to fish scales, all the way to position in the bed / where we sleep, to the worst travel experiences in a foriegn country. When I put my mind to it, I am quite the funny, intersting guy.
Overall, not a bad date. If either of us were attracted to the other, I'd see a potential for a 2nd date. Since I need me some sex, I may in fact call her for a 2nd date anyhow.
Your thoughts??
***Tonite's Date Update
Ok, now onto the NEXT date (yes, I have 3 dates this week, 3 days in a row. Let's see in next week's journal if I even have 1 date):
She's a jewish hippie chick, ad I answered on craigslist, recently moved to NYC, and apparently has some interesting stories about how she's lived in 2 or 3 'communes' (albeit 1 of them was a kibbutz - ask & I will explain if you need it).
I have her picture, and I do happen to think she's cute. But, this brings us to another topic: I think she looks like a femme lesbian. I'm totally ok with that. Shit, Im ok with her looking like a butch dyke. I just find it very amusing that either I'm attracted to lesbians, or they are attracted to me or something.
Of the past 6 women I've been with, 3 were either gay or bi-turned-gay, and 1 was bi. I just dont get it.
In fact, I showed MyDogFarted the photos of 2 women: 1 was tonite's date, the other was the lesbian sex slave I was sleeping with last month. I asked him to guess which is which. After some trepidation, he selected tonite's date as the lesbian. From now on he'll remember to bring me with him to all the lesbian bars he goes to - even if they will steal MLE's camera.
So, off to the salt mines of dating life again tonite....I'm not sure what to discuss with her, Im feeling quite tapped from last night..Anyone have any ideas??
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It is pretty sick and twisted.
I am just asking one more time to be sure.