Friendship
I have friends that never call or write and yet I still concider them to be amoung the best friends I know and the same can be said about me in their eyes.
We share very few of the same goals, dreams or hobies but some how I feel more connected to them than I would if they were to share more than a passing nod in the direction of my personality.
I have a buddy that only writes me if I write him first and then it's only a line or two to say hi and make the required occational gesture towards my girl and kid, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I know him and I know that if I have an issue that I need to resolve he's friend that I can talk to and he will help me in ways that surprise me at times.
And then there are those that I see every day and pray to the maker that they would just shrivel up and die a slow and painful death. The people I loath to even refer to as friends, I just all them"aquaintences" and leave it at that.
These are the ones that I can't seem to shake and want to "hang" with me. They feel the need to drag me into their sorted little affiars and troubles without a care as to whether or not I want to even know what their problems are. I seem to have more of these people around me now a days.
But the biggest waste of my time are the people that used to be friends and can't seem to understand that I don't want to be friends any more. These are the guys and gals that have betrayed my trust in some way or another and want to act as if nothing has happened.
"Bitch, you lied to me about my girl and now you think all is forgiven?!"
No I don't play those games anymore, I stop playing them when I was 12 and I'm not going to start back up now that I'm going on 35. Grow the fuck up and choke on your own vomit.
There I'm done.
I have friends that never call or write and yet I still concider them to be amoung the best friends I know and the same can be said about me in their eyes.
We share very few of the same goals, dreams or hobies but some how I feel more connected to them than I would if they were to share more than a passing nod in the direction of my personality.
I have a buddy that only writes me if I write him first and then it's only a line or two to say hi and make the required occational gesture towards my girl and kid, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I know him and I know that if I have an issue that I need to resolve he's friend that I can talk to and he will help me in ways that surprise me at times.
And then there are those that I see every day and pray to the maker that they would just shrivel up and die a slow and painful death. The people I loath to even refer to as friends, I just all them"aquaintences" and leave it at that.
These are the ones that I can't seem to shake and want to "hang" with me. They feel the need to drag me into their sorted little affiars and troubles without a care as to whether or not I want to even know what their problems are. I seem to have more of these people around me now a days.
But the biggest waste of my time are the people that used to be friends and can't seem to understand that I don't want to be friends any more. These are the guys and gals that have betrayed my trust in some way or another and want to act as if nothing has happened.
"Bitch, you lied to me about my girl and now you think all is forgiven?!"
No I don't play those games anymore, I stop playing them when I was 12 and I'm not going to start back up now that I'm going on 35. Grow the fuck up and choke on your own vomit.
There I'm done.
roxxee:
I love you. You rule. That is all.
american_exile:
I agree with alot of your views on friendship. several of my "friends" fall into these catagories. And to answer your questions? Someone was caught in the barracks with heroin so our CO and first sergeant has decided to punish us and work us like dogs. the answer to your second Q is superherostuff.com