In a section of the news :
Mason, since you present yourself to know so much about men and their behavior, please explain to me why my husband of the last ten years has changed so drastically. When we first started dating, even through our first three or four years of marriage, he was his own man. He was loyal but he had an independent spirit. He was a nice but he knew when and how to be naughty. That's what I liked about him. I hate to admit it but what attracted me to him in the first place was his "bad boy" demeanor that I thought he had. Now, he seems like a complete pushover. Until recently, I was happy with that. I got my way. Things were good. In the last couple of years however I've grown more and more disinterested in the marriage. I'm bored. Is it me?
- Stephanie (Bay Area)
This isn't uncommon. But since I'm not dialed into the full details of your situation, allow me to make a few assumptions in my response. So it appears what we have here is a man who has lost his way. Your henpecked husband has been 'wifestyled'. This is some serious wackness that occurs when a man shreds every morsel of his pre-marital lifestyle (and self-respect in the process), so that he can lose himself in his wife's utopian view of a perfect marriage, effectively reducing what was once great chemistry to a bad experiment. And therein lies the problem, Stephanie.
Look, exceptions to the rule abound, but most women whether they admit it or not prefer their men to have at least traceable levels of bad boy pathogens in their system. Unfortunately, they're often reminded of this when it's too late after you've fully detoxed your sensibilities and after they've convinced you that it's okay to pick up a box of tampons on your pre-game beer run. It's a gut-wrenching scene.
So what you have to do now is find the old you. Your wife is missing him. Grab the reins and get on with it before the next man does.
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Than I write :
Bottom line : Don't play mind games with manipulation unless you want things that way because men go with what's the simple and obvious solution and not the psychological solution.
Give me back my BAWLS WOMAN!! 
hahaha.
The fact that they would have that as part of the news and I keep hearing about shit like that tell's me just how messed up people are...are there no NORMAL relationships left out there?!?It's all mind games and shit.
PS I am not on the look out for a relationship so much as some people (whom assume too much) seem to think so piss off with the "if you don't look that's when it will happen" overly used sayings that I've heard more than 100 times.Send me a pre-made hallmark card in the mail if your feeling that uninspired.
If it happens to be that love comes my way than good,if not oh well
!!
I AM happy with who I am and all that and have lived very well alone but it would simply be nice to not be alone.
...............erm...I didn't write the first half of that it was from the news.I agree with getting the tampons just to let it be known though I care less for drinking and drugs and I also don't judge others whom do drink and do drugs unless it's effecting me in some dirrect way.I think it's fake and lame how defined relationships have become and speaking from my perspective I find it lame that (not all girls "politically correct formality needed when speaking of this is annoying but a must have thing
") girls tend to expect a man to be like a lump of clay to play with as to how he is expected to be with ok he starts out as him self and has to walk a line between being hard and soft instead of just being one's self and I know it's not just guys but also girls have this pre-written way of being expected to be by society and I hate that because it sucks the life and real romance out of love as if love is a game and no longer natural and real.That's my opinion,one man's opinion .
People assume way to much these days.
BREAKING NEWS
Paul Gray, the bassist for the Grammy-winning metal band Slipknot, was found dead Monday morning in his Des Moines, Iowa, hotel room, according to police. He was 38.
Mason, since you present yourself to know so much about men and their behavior, please explain to me why my husband of the last ten years has changed so drastically. When we first started dating, even through our first three or four years of marriage, he was his own man. He was loyal but he had an independent spirit. He was a nice but he knew when and how to be naughty. That's what I liked about him. I hate to admit it but what attracted me to him in the first place was his "bad boy" demeanor that I thought he had. Now, he seems like a complete pushover. Until recently, I was happy with that. I got my way. Things were good. In the last couple of years however I've grown more and more disinterested in the marriage. I'm bored. Is it me?
- Stephanie (Bay Area)
This isn't uncommon. But since I'm not dialed into the full details of your situation, allow me to make a few assumptions in my response. So it appears what we have here is a man who has lost his way. Your henpecked husband has been 'wifestyled'. This is some serious wackness that occurs when a man shreds every morsel of his pre-marital lifestyle (and self-respect in the process), so that he can lose himself in his wife's utopian view of a perfect marriage, effectively reducing what was once great chemistry to a bad experiment. And therein lies the problem, Stephanie.
Look, exceptions to the rule abound, but most women whether they admit it or not prefer their men to have at least traceable levels of bad boy pathogens in their system. Unfortunately, they're often reminded of this when it's too late after you've fully detoxed your sensibilities and after they've convinced you that it's okay to pick up a box of tampons on your pre-game beer run. It's a gut-wrenching scene.
So what you have to do now is find the old you. Your wife is missing him. Grab the reins and get on with it before the next man does.
...........................................................................................................................................................
...........................................................................................................................................................
Than I write :
Bottom line : Don't play mind games with manipulation unless you want things that way because men go with what's the simple and obvious solution and not the psychological solution.
Give me back my BAWLS WOMAN!! hahaha.The fact that they would have that as part of the news and I keep hearing about shit like that tell's me just how messed up people are...are there no NORMAL relationships left out there?!?It's all mind games and shit.
PS I am not on the look out for a relationship so much as some people (whom assume too much) seem to think so piss off with the "if you don't look that's when it will happen" overly used sayings that I've heard more than 100 times.Send me a pre-made hallmark card in the mail if your feeling that uninspired.
If it happens to be that love comes my way than good,if not oh well
!!I AM happy with who I am and all that and have lived very well alone but it would simply be nice to not be alone.
...............erm...I didn't write the first half of that it was from the news.I agree with getting the tampons just to let it be known though I care less for drinking and drugs and I also don't judge others whom do drink and do drugs unless it's effecting me in some dirrect way.I think it's fake and lame how defined relationships have become and speaking from my perspective I find it lame that (not all girls "politically correct formality needed when speaking of this is annoying but a must have thing
") girls tend to expect a man to be like a lump of clay to play with as to how he is expected to be with ok he starts out as him self and has to walk a line between being hard and soft instead of just being one's self and I know it's not just guys but also girls have this pre-written way of being expected to be by society and I hate that because it sucks the life and real romance out of love as if love is a game and no longer natural and real.That's my opinion,one man's opinion .People assume way to much these days
.BREAKING NEWS
Paul Gray, the bassist for the Grammy-winning metal band Slipknot, was found dead Monday morning in his Des Moines, Iowa, hotel room, according to police. He was 38.
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