therapy is working but not necessarily the way it's designed to. we go and talk about our last arguement and our counselor tells us "the mans job (in a relationship) is to love, the woman's is to respect" at that point i'd had enough of this zealot and his gospel approach. waste of an hour to spend our time in there defendign ourselves adn our likes. and what a shame that i agrue with this elderly gentleman when clearly he thinks hubbs is a sex addict and i'm doing something undescribably wrong. the good of all this is after a session we talk about how wrong the guy was and what we need to do to fix whats wrogn between us.
all's well that ends well?
all's well that ends well?
At least it is bringing you and your husband together, though. I can't get over that..."the man's job is to love and the woman's is to respect" as if man and woman aren't supposed to do both plus a whole lot more.
But I'm glad this finds you doing better all around.