Lots of things have happened since I last updated this..
Odin was finally neutered. He did pretty well. He freaked out with the e-collar, rammed his head into the side of a door and shattered it into three pieces. So it became more of a flower looking thing. Off to the trash it went. I replaced it but decided that it was only for bed time when I couldn't watch him like a hawk. About a week post op his scrotum swelled up. The vet said use warm compress so I did. Boy was that a site. But the swelling went down. I felt so bad for him. But now he is good. Back to his happy go lucky 120lb adolescent boy clutzing through the house.
I think that I may have fired my shrink. I am not sure if I am gonna go back. Last time I went we were discussing my daughter and I made him cry. I broke my shrink. I don't know if I am comforted by his showing of emotion or put off. On one hand it shows he is still human but on the other hand I feel abandoned and hopeless, like if it makes this trained professional come to tears how am I supposed to get over it? Argh.
Things with the hubby are going better. A work in progress but we have come a long way. I love him so much. We have started talking more in the evening. It gives us both a chance to get the days events off of our chest and to start the next day more refreshed feeling. I have to admit sometimes I get lost when he starts rambling about recruiting stuff but I try. He seems much more eager to hear about my day at home with the boys. He just had a week of vacation time and spent the majority of it with the boys. I think he realized just how much goes into maintaining the house and the kids.
I feel the need to get out of this state. I want to head south and escape the cold for a little bit. Just a weekend. I don't feel the need to go anywhere spectacular. Just warmer. I need a shot of sunshine.
A couple of weeks ago I was out and about in town and suddenly felt the urge to get my nipples pierced. I have had them done horizontally for years but I have always longed to have them done vertically as well. So off to the shop I went. It was so awesome. They are about two weeks old now and they are healing great. Just a little bit of crust once in a while. I have to say that this was the smoothest piercing experience ever. For some reason these never really ached like my first nipple piercings did. I love them
There is so much more to say but I will save that all for another time. I hope you are all well. To my dear friend, the one who adoringly refers to me as "wifey" Call me back sometime mkay? I miss you so much. I am in need of some girl time.
To the one I love... I miss you. A lot.
Odin was finally neutered. He did pretty well. He freaked out with the e-collar, rammed his head into the side of a door and shattered it into three pieces. So it became more of a flower looking thing. Off to the trash it went. I replaced it but decided that it was only for bed time when I couldn't watch him like a hawk. About a week post op his scrotum swelled up. The vet said use warm compress so I did. Boy was that a site. But the swelling went down. I felt so bad for him. But now he is good. Back to his happy go lucky 120lb adolescent boy clutzing through the house.
I think that I may have fired my shrink. I am not sure if I am gonna go back. Last time I went we were discussing my daughter and I made him cry. I broke my shrink. I don't know if I am comforted by his showing of emotion or put off. On one hand it shows he is still human but on the other hand I feel abandoned and hopeless, like if it makes this trained professional come to tears how am I supposed to get over it? Argh.
Things with the hubby are going better. A work in progress but we have come a long way. I love him so much. We have started talking more in the evening. It gives us both a chance to get the days events off of our chest and to start the next day more refreshed feeling. I have to admit sometimes I get lost when he starts rambling about recruiting stuff but I try. He seems much more eager to hear about my day at home with the boys. He just had a week of vacation time and spent the majority of it with the boys. I think he realized just how much goes into maintaining the house and the kids.
I feel the need to get out of this state. I want to head south and escape the cold for a little bit. Just a weekend. I don't feel the need to go anywhere spectacular. Just warmer. I need a shot of sunshine.
A couple of weeks ago I was out and about in town and suddenly felt the urge to get my nipples pierced. I have had them done horizontally for years but I have always longed to have them done vertically as well. So off to the shop I went. It was so awesome. They are about two weeks old now and they are healing great. Just a little bit of crust once in a while. I have to say that this was the smoothest piercing experience ever. For some reason these never really ached like my first nipple piercings did. I love them
There is so much more to say but I will save that all for another time. I hope you are all well. To my dear friend, the one who adoringly refers to me as "wifey" Call me back sometime mkay? I miss you so much. I am in need of some girl time.
To the one I love... I miss you. A lot.
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We just got the puppy last night and are already learning that "crate trained" means she sleeps okay in a crate when she has her brothers, sisters, mom, dad and grandma dogs around.
But it will be worth it.
I would say that the shrink is just human. Give him a chance to process his own feelings and see what he comes up with before you fire him.
xoxo