I know she took time to think about us. I know that she said she's young, needs time to herself, has to do some soul searching and self growth; she made the right decision currently but, she said that she knows we would have worked at a later time in life. That she still wants me in her life and wants to do all the things we enjoy doing together and that makes me happy. I told her that maybe we rushed things a little and she agreed, "maybe that's it. Maybe we do need to get to know eachother more as friends before we can have that relationship." I get the feeling that she does truely want to get in a better headspace and doesn't want to completely let me go but, at the same time, I'm not sure we'll ever have another chance again. I can't help but want to try and get her to change her mind. I don't want to ask her to change it, I want her to realize it on her own by hanging out with me and realizing what we had. It's just so hard for me knowing that we might never be "us" again and we'll just be good friends but, I'm not letting a girl like that just slip away so easily. It may take a good bit of time but, I've got all the time in the world for that girl.
kacigoff:
The universe gives you things when you're ready. Timing is everything. Just let it be and if it's real and meant it will happen. But try expressing yourself one last time and if shes really not ready then just have her as someone in your life
alreadyauser:
Thanks @kacigoff your input means a lot. I will definitely express myself once more soon. I like your outlook on the universe, it's refreshing. It'll be ok if she doesn't want what I want. Maybe in time she will. Even though I do have strong feelings for her, I'm sure there is someone out there that would love to have me feel this way about them but, I now know I am in no rush to find that. I'm gonna let the universe work it's magic because I'm not going anywhere and I'll only be more sure and confident in myself as time passes.