Bo so good to have you at the Ball. Stay in touch with Countessa who is working the angles. The Ball will be her show, so to speak, this year, and she'll be finalising the date.
I imagine that 18-19th, 25-26th, and even 2-3rd (Oct) may be the weekends in contention. If your wedding (not yours, you know what I mean) is the weekend of the 2nd, and BeaEffEff is getting married on the 25th, that may push things back to the weekend of the 18-19th. I don't know if that's too soon for your return, but just keep in touch with Countessa and we'll juggle stuff.
I imagine that 18-19th, 25-26th, and even 2-3rd (Oct) may be the weekends in contention. If your wedding (not yours, you know what I mean) is the weekend of the 2nd, and BeaEffEff is getting married on the 25th, that may push things back to the weekend of the 18-19th. I don't know if that's too soon for your return, but just keep in touch with Countessa and we'll juggle stuff.