I have this friend who is 7 months pregnant with a losers child. After a month of thinking I made some progress in trying to help her, tonight I just felt like I've been walked on.
The poor girl has no job and no money. Her "man" is working in another state claiming he's going to help her. In the 3-4 months that he's been gone, she's been able to only squeeze out a total of $140 from him.
Yeah, that might sound selfish until you consider the guy wouldn't talk to her for the longest time because he always claimed to either be at work, or to tired from working 12 hour shifts.
The guy thinks all her friends (including myself) are shit. We all need to stay out of her life so he can have her all to his self. Yet, he's done nothing at all a man should do to earn her. She's by far one of the most beauttiful girls I've ever met. I don't want to say I'm in love with her or anything, but I feel instinctively compelled to help her out... buy her things... keep her company when she calls me after crying from being home alone and bored.
Tonight, after watching a movie at her place, she tells me she needs to make a phone call. After she supposedly dumped his sorry ass a few days ago, he's managed to bullshit his way back to her. I feel like if she's going to intentionally make her life miserable, then I shouldn't bother helping her anymore. How hard will that be when, sometimes, that's all I want to do is make her happy.
To make things worse, this girl as this quirky anxiety disorder that makes her afraid to go out in the daylight. She wears way to much make-up if we go anywhere well-lit, and takes half of her 3 hours of getting ready to do her hair. In addition to her unreasonable insecurities, she thinks every guy is either out to get a piece of her ass, or out to kill/rape her. Even I, who's known her for almost 8 years.
I just wish I could "break" her condition.
The poor girl has no job and no money. Her "man" is working in another state claiming he's going to help her. In the 3-4 months that he's been gone, she's been able to only squeeze out a total of $140 from him.
Yeah, that might sound selfish until you consider the guy wouldn't talk to her for the longest time because he always claimed to either be at work, or to tired from working 12 hour shifts.
The guy thinks all her friends (including myself) are shit. We all need to stay out of her life so he can have her all to his self. Yet, he's done nothing at all a man should do to earn her. She's by far one of the most beauttiful girls I've ever met. I don't want to say I'm in love with her or anything, but I feel instinctively compelled to help her out... buy her things... keep her company when she calls me after crying from being home alone and bored.
Tonight, after watching a movie at her place, she tells me she needs to make a phone call. After she supposedly dumped his sorry ass a few days ago, he's managed to bullshit his way back to her. I feel like if she's going to intentionally make her life miserable, then I shouldn't bother helping her anymore. How hard will that be when, sometimes, that's all I want to do is make her happy.
To make things worse, this girl as this quirky anxiety disorder that makes her afraid to go out in the daylight. She wears way to much make-up if we go anywhere well-lit, and takes half of her 3 hours of getting ready to do her hair. In addition to her unreasonable insecurities, she thinks every guy is either out to get a piece of her ass, or out to kill/rape her. Even I, who's known her for almost 8 years.
I just wish I could "break" her condition.
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