i cant stand inconsiderate rude people.
the fact that some people can go thru life regularly pissing people off and seemingly not care baffles me. Where does this come from? This strand of anti-social people are the type that brush off people's opinions and disregard people's feelings, even when expressed to them in a calm mature manner, sometimes ignoring them all together with comments like "neato". When someone expresses an important idea or feeling to you, an acknowlegment is expected. They also put down people's likes and anyone who doesnt do/enjoy/feel the same things as them are morons. How hard is it to be considerate and polite?
as an example, lets say someone says "I really like pop music"...the inconsiderate ass would say something along the lines of "pop music fucking sucks. People who listen to that shit are faggots".......how hard is it to say "I dont like pop music. I prefer metal".
or if someone is angry/upset at you and they tell you so, the normal considerate human would say "Im sorry you feel that way. This is how i feel...." instead of laughing off their opinions and feelings and saying obviously rude and insesitive things back. Is it really hard to have a civilized conversation anymore?
im not asking for people to censor their opinions on things, i just ask for them to be expressed in a professional, non-hurtfull manner.Why make a confrontation or disagreement worse with rude comments? Your veiw can be equally expressed in a calm way. Saying rude things when someone is expressing their feelings (even if they are negative towards you) makes you seem uneducated....like you are incapable of civilized conversations, or cannot use/understand formal language.
basically, you make yourself look like an uneducated asshole, who has no grasp on acceptable social behavior.....its like they enjoy causing confrontation and degrading people.
i cannot and will never understand people like this.....did their parent's not hug them enough or something?
am i wrong for feeling this way? im i the only one?
the fact that some people can go thru life regularly pissing people off and seemingly not care baffles me. Where does this come from? This strand of anti-social people are the type that brush off people's opinions and disregard people's feelings, even when expressed to them in a calm mature manner, sometimes ignoring them all together with comments like "neato". When someone expresses an important idea or feeling to you, an acknowlegment is expected. They also put down people's likes and anyone who doesnt do/enjoy/feel the same things as them are morons. How hard is it to be considerate and polite?
as an example, lets say someone says "I really like pop music"...the inconsiderate ass would say something along the lines of "pop music fucking sucks. People who listen to that shit are faggots".......how hard is it to say "I dont like pop music. I prefer metal".
or if someone is angry/upset at you and they tell you so, the normal considerate human would say "Im sorry you feel that way. This is how i feel...." instead of laughing off their opinions and feelings and saying obviously rude and insesitive things back. Is it really hard to have a civilized conversation anymore?
im not asking for people to censor their opinions on things, i just ask for them to be expressed in a professional, non-hurtfull manner.Why make a confrontation or disagreement worse with rude comments? Your veiw can be equally expressed in a calm way. Saying rude things when someone is expressing their feelings (even if they are negative towards you) makes you seem uneducated....like you are incapable of civilized conversations, or cannot use/understand formal language.
basically, you make yourself look like an uneducated asshole, who has no grasp on acceptable social behavior.....its like they enjoy causing confrontation and degrading people.
i cannot and will never understand people like this.....did their parent's not hug them enough or something?
am i wrong for feeling this way? im i the only one?