ok so here's my question of the day...
if you have a friend, and nothing in particular happened they just started getting offended every time you guys hung out, for no real reason other than you pissed them off, what would you do? this friend is a good friend, sweet you've been close for a while, but it just seems like nothing you do makes it better and the only solution would be to suck it up, let them rag on you for about 3 hours (not exaggerating) and when your side comes up they don't want to hear it.
maybe i'm the only one in the world, but i am REALLY bad with confrontation and drama, especially when i don't really know why it came up in the first place.so what to do? leave this friend and give up someone close who might be better in the long run, or might never change and stays difficult. or... again take it like a man, and let them rag and get out whatever is really bothering them.
i sound like a chump i know, but every time i have a friend that i think is even remotely close to me, they dump shit on me that's not mine to deal with. its happened with the last friends and its happening again... pattern???
if you have a friend, and nothing in particular happened they just started getting offended every time you guys hung out, for no real reason other than you pissed them off, what would you do? this friend is a good friend, sweet you've been close for a while, but it just seems like nothing you do makes it better and the only solution would be to suck it up, let them rag on you for about 3 hours (not exaggerating) and when your side comes up they don't want to hear it.
maybe i'm the only one in the world, but i am REALLY bad with confrontation and drama, especially when i don't really know why it came up in the first place.so what to do? leave this friend and give up someone close who might be better in the long run, or might never change and stays difficult. or... again take it like a man, and let them rag and get out whatever is really bothering them.
i sound like a chump i know, but every time i have a friend that i think is even remotely close to me, they dump shit on me that's not mine to deal with. its happened with the last friends and its happening again... pattern???
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i know the feeling.
heh. dont take the crap.
silently vanish.
or confront honestly and assertively
only things you could do really.
and yeah what the above others said