So, I joined a Gym, working out is always the thing to do when winter is upon us. So things are a little fucking tense. I took my best girl out to a club yesterday. It was a girlfriend of mines birthday yesterday so a bunch of us went out to celebrate and get fucking trashed.
Around midnight her and I split and went over to the Irish pub to listen to pantera and do some more Quervo and snake bit shots. So anyway the girl whose birthday it was calls and asks us if we want to go back to her house. So we went over there and eventually decided to take her to her bedroom where the two of us gave her her birthday present, several times. Later on we came back here and I had mentioned to my best girl that I had slept with a few chicks three years ago when we weren't so serious and that the chick we were just out with was one of them. Yeah, it was fucking stupid, Loose lips caused by intense alcohol fucking consumption.
So anyway she freaked on me because she said she never would have gotten serious with me had she known that I had been messing around with a couple of other girls. But you know what? I didn't feel like a fucking pig at the time cause we were dating. Correct me if Im wrong but dating means going out and having a good time. Serious is when time goes on and you decide that you want to be exclusive.
The thing is that I never asked her if she were seeing other people because I felt it wasn't my business until we became serious or exclusive. I guess I see it like asking someone how many people they have slept with. What fucking difference does it make. I never ask because I figure that what someone does before you are together is thier own business.
The problem is that three years ago she asked me if I were seeing other people or sleeping with other people and I said NO. I resented the fact that she asked so the first thing I said was No. Well now she said I lied to her. Which I did but why the hell would someone ask that anyway? That is kind of like asking the how many people you have slept with thing. If you want monogamy then go for monogamy, if not then you have no right to want to know what I do when I leave your apartment. Am I right here or am I left? Fuck if I know. Yeah I can be a prick but I wasn't trying to be when then. I just didn't know how to fucking answer. Well that is all for now, fuck it..........L8er...............AJ
Around midnight her and I split and went over to the Irish pub to listen to pantera and do some more Quervo and snake bit shots. So anyway the girl whose birthday it was calls and asks us if we want to go back to her house. So we went over there and eventually decided to take her to her bedroom where the two of us gave her her birthday present, several times. Later on we came back here and I had mentioned to my best girl that I had slept with a few chicks three years ago when we weren't so serious and that the chick we were just out with was one of them. Yeah, it was fucking stupid, Loose lips caused by intense alcohol fucking consumption.
So anyway she freaked on me because she said she never would have gotten serious with me had she known that I had been messing around with a couple of other girls. But you know what? I didn't feel like a fucking pig at the time cause we were dating. Correct me if Im wrong but dating means going out and having a good time. Serious is when time goes on and you decide that you want to be exclusive.
The thing is that I never asked her if she were seeing other people because I felt it wasn't my business until we became serious or exclusive. I guess I see it like asking someone how many people they have slept with. What fucking difference does it make. I never ask because I figure that what someone does before you are together is thier own business.
The problem is that three years ago she asked me if I were seeing other people or sleeping with other people and I said NO. I resented the fact that she asked so the first thing I said was No. Well now she said I lied to her. Which I did but why the hell would someone ask that anyway? That is kind of like asking the how many people you have slept with thing. If you want monogamy then go for monogamy, if not then you have no right to want to know what I do when I leave your apartment. Am I right here or am I left? Fuck if I know. Yeah I can be a prick but I wasn't trying to be when then. I just didn't know how to fucking answer. Well that is all for now, fuck it..........L8er...............AJ
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tuffyluffaguss:
Bummer about your best gurl dude. But yeah you left not right, at least in a girls eye's. But then again every man in a girl's eye is an asshole so really, your gonna have to deal with being like every other guy. And no we didnt have sex on Shrooms. In fact he really scared me a couple a of times. Like we started making out and he growled, like he does when he wants to get rowdy but the growl like reverberated in my chest and its vibration scared the hell out of my, I pretty much darted across the room and curled up on the armchair. He was so confused, he ws like come over here and cuddle and I was like hell no you fucking animal your gonna eat me and not in the good way. Other then that we watched Heavy Metal and Heavy Metal 2000. It rocked. 
tragic_kat:
Sticky situation, AJ. She probably wasn't seeing other people, and wanted to think the same about you. It's more of a slap in the face than anything you did wrong. And three years is a loooonnng fucking time...I would hope she gets over this quickly, because it isn't worth much more than what's already happened. Have a lot of fun, boy, I'll drink one for you.... 