If you don't want people knowing your business...don't fucking post it...it's really as easy as that...kids. I think people forget that this is an on-line site for naked girls(thats why i joined in the first place)...not the dear abby column, or a meeting place for psychotherapy...seriously, give me a fucking break. All i'm trying to say is that it's a fun site, with lots of cool people...so leave it at that...there's no need for people to be getting bitched at to be on a site that THEY pay for!!! 
consuela:
sho 'nuff!