Well I've decide today is the day for ventiing.
I met this guy about 2 years ago. Really great guy, good head on his shoulders successful and astablished all the thing most girls are looking for.
We dated for about 2 month. Then his ex found out he was dating someone new and decide she wanted to work things out. Of couse I get the shaft.
About a month or so later we talk again, he tells me things didn't work out and they didn't get back together after all.
So of course we start hanging out again. It's like the perfect relationship, great sex with no major life binding commitments . And up intill recently we were both very happy with everything.
But stupid me and my big heart let the best friend I'd already had a falling out with and stop talking to come stay with me.
He was always talking shit -how I should kick her out, that she's just going to take advantage of me and keep just living off of me instead of getting a job.
Then in Dec. I move out of my old house and didn't let her come with me.But one of my friends has a very big mouth and tells her about my new apartment. So she ends up moving back in with On the 15 of Dec.
Mean while everythings cool with my guy friend. Then the week before Christmas he invits me and my kids to spend it with his family, and for some strange reason invited her to. He told me it ws because she was with me at the time and he didn't want to be rude. What the fuck ever .
So we go to dinner . I have my kids with me evrything going ok , but then my female instincts start kicking in, somethings not right, he being way to nice to someone he doesn't like at all, once again he doesn't want to rude.
A week goes by she disappearing alot. And when I'm over at his house she just happens to be looking for me and showing up at his house.Then the Friday before New Years Eve I meet at the track were he races gas powered RC cars and she shows up, supposedly to meet her sons aunt who wasn't there by the way. First words out of his mouth "I didn't tell her to come down here."
After the races were over I told him to come to my house, but he said he was tired and he son wasn't feeling well. OK. So I called him and talk to him on the drive home.I went to go pick up my kids, and when I passed his house he wasn't home yet. ( lives down the st. from my grandparents) My friend never comes home that night.She comes home the next morning talking about how shed met this guy at her sons aunts house and that theyed had sex and of course how good it was.
Evening aproched and I was supposed to spendNew years eve with my guy friend, but he told me he didn't want to go anywhere and that I didn't want to be bored with him so I should go do something else.I was pissed.
Anyway he came over to my house for a little while to hang out with me before I left.
My friend wouldn't leave she said her friend was going to meet at 11pm.
Of course the whole time my guy friends over he won't come near me or go in my room with me for ya know.
He decides to leave. Still acting weird. I finsish getting ready. But as soon as he leaves she decide that it's time for her to go too. So I call him at about 10:45 when I'm on my way out, and he told me to call him at midnight.
So I did, he didn't answer the phone.
The next morning I called him to come over, He said he would in an hour, never showed up, But my friend did.
Sunday night I stopped by his house and he was getting ready to leave to go to the track again. Usually he invites me this time he didn't. Then guess what my friend pops up. supposedly going to my moms.She tells me she'll see me at home then leaves. I go get my kids and call home to see if shes there she is, But when I get there shes left again. So I get back in my car And go back over to his house because by this time my little brains just going. He gone and that Stupid little fucking hores car is park around the corner from his house where she had "hid" it from me. So I call him, He doesn't answer. Finally I get a hold of him .
I ask him if she with him and what the hell is going on .He tells me no and that nothings go on (Lier)
So I of Couse toss and turn all night becuase I know he's lying. The next day I go over to his house and confront him.He finally admits everything. She had been with he all weekend and at midnight on new years eve, while I was alone.
The worst part of this whole thing was not losing her but losing him and the friendship I had grown to love. And of course the fact that she was living wth me when she decide to start stupping my guy.
Oh well I'll survive I always do. Things like this happen and I just become stronger person.
Things will probably never be alright between us again.I've only talk to him a couple times since then, and I don't plan on ever talking to her again.
I met this guy about 2 years ago. Really great guy, good head on his shoulders successful and astablished all the thing most girls are looking for.
We dated for about 2 month. Then his ex found out he was dating someone new and decide she wanted to work things out. Of couse I get the shaft.
About a month or so later we talk again, he tells me things didn't work out and they didn't get back together after all.
So of course we start hanging out again. It's like the perfect relationship, great sex with no major life binding commitments . And up intill recently we were both very happy with everything.
But stupid me and my big heart let the best friend I'd already had a falling out with and stop talking to come stay with me.
He was always talking shit -how I should kick her out, that she's just going to take advantage of me and keep just living off of me instead of getting a job.
Then in Dec. I move out of my old house and didn't let her come with me.But one of my friends has a very big mouth and tells her about my new apartment. So she ends up moving back in with On the 15 of Dec.
Mean while everythings cool with my guy friend. Then the week before Christmas he invits me and my kids to spend it with his family, and for some strange reason invited her to. He told me it ws because she was with me at the time and he didn't want to be rude. What the fuck ever .
So we go to dinner . I have my kids with me evrything going ok , but then my female instincts start kicking in, somethings not right, he being way to nice to someone he doesn't like at all, once again he doesn't want to rude.
A week goes by she disappearing alot. And when I'm over at his house she just happens to be looking for me and showing up at his house.Then the Friday before New Years Eve I meet at the track were he races gas powered RC cars and she shows up, supposedly to meet her sons aunt who wasn't there by the way. First words out of his mouth "I didn't tell her to come down here."
After the races were over I told him to come to my house, but he said he was tired and he son wasn't feeling well. OK. So I called him and talk to him on the drive home.I went to go pick up my kids, and when I passed his house he wasn't home yet. ( lives down the st. from my grandparents) My friend never comes home that night.She comes home the next morning talking about how shed met this guy at her sons aunts house and that theyed had sex and of course how good it was.
Evening aproched and I was supposed to spendNew years eve with my guy friend, but he told me he didn't want to go anywhere and that I didn't want to be bored with him so I should go do something else.I was pissed.
Anyway he came over to my house for a little while to hang out with me before I left.
My friend wouldn't leave she said her friend was going to meet at 11pm.
Of course the whole time my guy friends over he won't come near me or go in my room with me for ya know.
He decides to leave. Still acting weird. I finsish getting ready. But as soon as he leaves she decide that it's time for her to go too. So I call him at about 10:45 when I'm on my way out, and he told me to call him at midnight.
So I did, he didn't answer the phone.
The next morning I called him to come over, He said he would in an hour, never showed up, But my friend did.
Sunday night I stopped by his house and he was getting ready to leave to go to the track again. Usually he invites me this time he didn't. Then guess what my friend pops up. supposedly going to my moms.She tells me she'll see me at home then leaves. I go get my kids and call home to see if shes there she is, But when I get there shes left again. So I get back in my car And go back over to his house because by this time my little brains just going. He gone and that Stupid little fucking hores car is park around the corner from his house where she had "hid" it from me. So I call him, He doesn't answer. Finally I get a hold of him .
I ask him if she with him and what the hell is going on .He tells me no and that nothings go on (Lier)
So I of Couse toss and turn all night becuase I know he's lying. The next day I go over to his house and confront him.He finally admits everything. She had been with he all weekend and at midnight on new years eve, while I was alone.
The worst part of this whole thing was not losing her but losing him and the friendship I had grown to love. And of course the fact that she was living wth me when she decide to start stupping my guy.
Oh well I'll survive I always do. Things like this happen and I just become stronger person.
Things will probably never be alright between us again.I've only talk to him a couple times since then, and I don't plan on ever talking to her again.
My thoughts on the subject are that he is just as dispicable--(hope I spelled that right, it was the ONLY appropriate word) as she is. I know you got used to his "friendship" but some people "get used to" throwing up after they eat, and eventually think they like doing it.
Sorry to hear you are feeling sad though. Hope your luck turns.
xoxo
Sunshine