aeon49802

There is always give and take in a relationship. The problem is, sometimes there is more take on one end than another. Him adamantly not wanting you to do this (know you really want to) is a selfish position for him to take. If its a morality thing, thats his deal and something you need to think about (being with someone so hung up on "morality"). If its just because he doesn't want anyone else to see his GF, thats dumb and childish, especially if its something you want. Its a hairy situation to be in because you obviously are in a relationship wit this dude for a reason, but who knows..... this might just be the tip of the icelandic iceburg of how is really is. But what the hell do I know? Good luck!

Well, it's really none of my damn business, but since ya posted it, I'm gonna comment on it; It is fucked up that your bf is threatening to leave you over you wanting to pose for SG. This has nothing to do with you and is all about HIM. This is HIS jealousy, and HIS insecurity. Not about YOUR body, or YOUR potential future opportunities. Maybe a little apprehension on his part is understandable, but threatening you with an ultimatum? That is just fucked, in such a high schoolish, little-boy fashion. If he were a stand-up guy, he'd let you make your own choices and do what a bf/significant other is supposed to do: stand fast and support you. And regardless whether or not it becomes a regrettable experience, it is your decision to make, and things like that are best learnt on your own anyway. Anyway, enough of the rant....good luck, and I hope you get this thing sorted out.
P.S. I through lucky strikes like they're gettin ready ta outlaw 'em