I belong to a group for online music education and this mother fucker sent this shit to me. I knew he was off his fuckin rocker and I thought that he could understand my sarcasm and humor, but I guess people are built differently.
Some info has been changed for reasons.
His statements are italicized and My thoughts about what he said are in bold.
“A, you have been climbing down my throat since we first became active in (website), for reasons neither ________or I can understand. What did either of us do to receive such disrespectful comments, demeaning remarks and behavior as if we're in a grade school hallway and the bully just grabs a name out of hat chosing whomever takes the shit with a smile.”
(There were no disrespecting comments made ever. EVER. The chat room is live and public, all meme era and staff can see and the staff keeps a record of it)
“I've bent over backwards trying to return my frustration with kindness, humor, and compassion..but that wasn't enough. You throw down a challenge in a chatroom full of students like the very immature bully in the yard. Not only a sign of disrespect where I come from, but clearly an indication you've felt insecure over my very presence for awhile. “
(pardon me if my “bullying” challenge was actually encouraging them to do something that even the new people were doing, submitting videos of their playing for a review! Not a challenge, it’s encouraged by the staff and everyone!)
“We came to (website) for 2 reasons: Rejuvenate our passion for music and drumming. We were surrounded by countless open arms of support and gratitude..feeling welcome in a family of like minded individuals, but it's all come to a halt. Neither of us want to join anymore live sessions, partake in community or student projects, because the atmosphere has changed so negatively..the joy is lost.”
(No idea why, it’s all fun and games in the live chat! No ones making fun of anyone, no ones calling anyone’s name or calling them names)
“In times like we're facing now, the friends you surround yourself with define the path you've chosen. We don't like the path ahead anymore and need to make a change. I do recall one of the rules in (website) communities was to be supportive of fellow members, and you've been far from that. But your mentioning being kicked out of another group all makes sense now.”
(Because it was toxic and the group I was removed from can’t handle sarcasm especially when I called the admins out for abusing their power)
“I couldn't pass judgement back then because you hadn't offended us at that time. When we can't show our character due to being antagonized every time we join a session or make a comment..the community sees us for someone we are not, and that is a shame. If you knew the slightest bit of my or ______s history, you may get a clue of who we are..where we've been, the People in our family circle..but surely you'd find a way to turn that positive into a negative also.”
(No idea what the hell he means, he was never called out or pointed at or directly named or mentioned: and I have people that can definitely vouch for that plus the website has a record of everything that was said in the live chat for the past 6 months)
“So we ask that you leave us out of your conversations and will do the same.”
(Cool I don’t need psychos in my life anyway!)
fuck... this.... nonsense!
I try to be the nicest person I can be, supportive, helpful... above and beyond as much as I can... and that's why I'm so pissed off. What the fuck....