I had a crazy busy weekend. I started writing a long journal entry about everything that happened, but then I got tired and couldn't concentrate anymore, so I'm just going to write some of the highlights now and fill the rest in later.
Friday was the last fetish night at ManRay. I wore a latex shirt and latex pants, which given the heat and crowd was quite an adventure. I after-partied at Sid's place where I met the lovely Gia for the first time. I had met her bf, Antihero_Wraith, twice before (and now I will remember who he is!) and I knew he was a real cool guy but I was really surprised on how beautiful, friendly, and all-around awesome Gia was in person. She actually laughed at all my stupid jokes, which is pretty unusual for anyone, especially a girl. I think when I meet a girl that I know is unavailable (usually because she has a bf or something) I'm not initimidated and don't feel like I have to impress her and instead I just be myself and I end up making a much better impression. It's sort of ironic I suppose. I got home at 6:00am and went to bed at 6:30am
The next day I woke up at 9:30am so I could go to the beach with a bunch of SG Boston people. It was a great time and I flew kites and read and ate and went swimming in the ocean. We hurried home at 5pm where we all met up at my place and had a BBQ with lizzard burgers. After some food or drink we all went out to the last night at ManRay which was just as crowded and crazy as Friday night. Luckily I was wearing cotten this time which was far more comfortable. I seem to have spent most of my time waiting for drinks at the bar so Sid and I just started double-fisting instead of continually waiting for more drinks.
Later in the evening I ran into Katie (who is young but cute) and I was surprised to see her sitting alone and looking sad. Normally I always see her with Fetish. I asked her what was going on and she said she wanted to go home but that Fetish had driven her so that she was stuck there. I offered to buy her a drink but said she was only 20 and one drink wasn't likely to be enough to cheer her up. Since I had been kicked out of ManRay just a few weeks earlier for buying drinkings for underage friends of mine, what was I gonna to do? Yup, you guessed it, I went inside to the bar and bought her *two* drinks. So went went downstairs where Lee was working coat check and she double-fisted two red deaths. It was remarkable to see how quickly she completely turned around and cheered up. I ended up hanging out with her and Fetish (does she know who I am yet?) and some new friends they had just met, Nick, his gf (whos name is escaping me), and Audra. When the club closed, Fetish wanted to go home instead of going to an after-party or maybe hang out with her new friends who she just discovered lived just a few miles from her. Katie seen to want to go to an after-party
but she left with Fetish and the others. I had told Sid that I would drive her home so I went to go find her. She was tired and didn't want to go to an after-party so we took some brick chips from ManRay, got a little teary-eyed and I took her back to her apartment. I headed out to a party somewhere in Somerville some guy Douglas had told me about.
I was nervous cause I didn't know the person who was having the party but it turned out that my friend Mike's friend Ben lived there (I had met him at Mike's house a couple of weeks ago) and Mike was there too, even though he didn't bother going to ManRay that night, lol. To my surprise I also saw Katie there and I mixed her up a drink. I drank a bit more and got a bit silly. There was a girl there named Erika who I had seen leaving ManRay and I thought she was attractive and looked like fun but back at ManRay she pretty much ignored me. I talked to her a bit and tried out my new line that I had promised Sid that I would use that night (in exchange for a free drink). We had found it earlier at my BBQ when we were searching the web for the recipe for a red death. I don't remember what the line was exactly, but it was something like, "If you were to stand in front of a mirror holding eleven roses, you'd see twelve of the most beautiful things in the world". I told Sid that if I was actually drunk enough to use that line, I'd probably be too drunk to remember exactly what it was. That was pretty much what happened. So after that, I told her that I thought she had a beautiful singing voice and I thouhgt that she was a talented songwriter. She was flattered and asked me how I knew. I told her I could see it in her eyes, and then something about the eyes being the window to the soul. Actually, I had heard her making up songs and singing about ManRay after the club had closed.
Here is the weird part about this whole situation. At first she seemed to ignore me but I won this girl over completely with MY PERSONALITY. Yes, seriously, how messed up is that?? Somehow I ended up sitting on the couch next to her and she asked me to take off my shirt (don't ask - we were having a classical orgy, complete with virtual grapes). By the end of the night she had falled asleep in my lap with me stroking her abdomen with one hand and her neck with the other. Next to me was a guy named Josh, upon who Erika's legs were lying. He seemed to be cool, actually, but I couldn't quite figure him out, namely if he was interested in her too. I was worried that he was and as many of you know, I don't deal with competition when it comes to girls well at all -- I just don't compete and instead give up, because I know I always lose (yeah, yeah, I know, "competition" isn't exactly the right word to use, but from a guy's perspective it is like you are in fact, "competing" for a girl's attention when you first meet her). I could tell there was some chemistry there and I would have kissed her had Josh not been there next to me. We ended up just sitting there for hours and listening to a guy named Jameson talk (he's a [:a:] member just like Quiescence). He is amazing to listen to. I don't know how to describe him but he just pounded back scotch after scotch and talked and talked, emoting wildly the whole time. He reminded me a little bit of Brad Pitt's character from twelve monkeys but without the whole psychotic part. He's a really intruiging person and a great dancer and I'm happy that I'll get to hang out with him again on Friday at Quiescence's birthday party.
It was 7:30am and I had fallen asleep on the couch with Erika in my arms when Mike (the guy who lived there) came around and woke us up. There were about 5 other people still at the party. And so we stretched and got up and got ready to leave. Katie had gone home hours earlier and I learned from Jameson that he had gotten her phone number. Maybe I would have been jealous on any other day, but Jameson seemed like such a cool guy and from hearing him talk, he might be the only one I know whos life has actually been going shittier than mine, lol. He deserved it and, well, I was more interested in getting Erika's number. Josh was still there next to me when I woke up. Eria and he got up and it seemed like they are going to leave together and I'm thought... maybe he is her boyfriend and I began to think that maybe I should just give up. As we walked out the door and I turned to head to my car, she called out to me and asked me for my phone number, saying that we definitely had to hang out again. She offered her phone number too, but neither of us had a pen or paper on it (and my cell phone was smashed into bits Friday night, but that is another story). So she lead me to Josh's car where we dug around for some scrap paper. They offered to drive me back to my car, but that was kind of silly cause my car was like 30 feet back from his on a one-way street. So instead they drove me around the block. I noticed a lot of laundy, mostly women's clothing, in the back seat and I asked Josh who all these clothes belong to and he answered "my girlfriend". That cleared up the question of him and Erika -- apparently they are just friends.
Erika seemed to take forever to write her down her phone number. I sat in the car waiting for her while she was doodling or something. When I got home I looked at the paper she had given me and I saw that on the back of the paper she had drawn a big spiral and in the middle of it, in small letters she wrote the word "YES". I've been staring at it for a while, wondering if it has some kind of deeper meaning or is some kind of riddle or something, Probably its just a meaningless doodle, but I'm curious to hear what other people think. Maybe I had asked her a question in the car and she wrote down the answer? In the meantime, I'm really excited to hang out with her again, and I"m worried that I didn't really show enough enthusiasm last night (it's always too much or too little). I guess I'm gonna wait the requisite 3 days and then call her, though I'm really nervous about that. She's bound to find me much less entertaining and much more annoying when she's not drunk (lol, I am SO self-deprecating!) I'm not sure what I'm going to say to her when I do call - I do hate talking on the phone.
Friday was the last fetish night at ManRay. I wore a latex shirt and latex pants, which given the heat and crowd was quite an adventure. I after-partied at Sid's place where I met the lovely Gia for the first time. I had met her bf, Antihero_Wraith, twice before (and now I will remember who he is!) and I knew he was a real cool guy but I was really surprised on how beautiful, friendly, and all-around awesome Gia was in person. She actually laughed at all my stupid jokes, which is pretty unusual for anyone, especially a girl. I think when I meet a girl that I know is unavailable (usually because she has a bf or something) I'm not initimidated and don't feel like I have to impress her and instead I just be myself and I end up making a much better impression. It's sort of ironic I suppose. I got home at 6:00am and went to bed at 6:30am
The next day I woke up at 9:30am so I could go to the beach with a bunch of SG Boston people. It was a great time and I flew kites and read and ate and went swimming in the ocean. We hurried home at 5pm where we all met up at my place and had a BBQ with lizzard burgers. After some food or drink we all went out to the last night at ManRay which was just as crowded and crazy as Friday night. Luckily I was wearing cotten this time which was far more comfortable. I seem to have spent most of my time waiting for drinks at the bar so Sid and I just started double-fisting instead of continually waiting for more drinks.
Later in the evening I ran into Katie (who is young but cute) and I was surprised to see her sitting alone and looking sad. Normally I always see her with Fetish. I asked her what was going on and she said she wanted to go home but that Fetish had driven her so that she was stuck there. I offered to buy her a drink but said she was only 20 and one drink wasn't likely to be enough to cheer her up. Since I had been kicked out of ManRay just a few weeks earlier for buying drinkings for underage friends of mine, what was I gonna to do? Yup, you guessed it, I went inside to the bar and bought her *two* drinks. So went went downstairs where Lee was working coat check and she double-fisted two red deaths. It was remarkable to see how quickly she completely turned around and cheered up. I ended up hanging out with her and Fetish (does she know who I am yet?) and some new friends they had just met, Nick, his gf (whos name is escaping me), and Audra. When the club closed, Fetish wanted to go home instead of going to an after-party or maybe hang out with her new friends who she just discovered lived just a few miles from her. Katie seen to want to go to an after-party
but she left with Fetish and the others. I had told Sid that I would drive her home so I went to go find her. She was tired and didn't want to go to an after-party so we took some brick chips from ManRay, got a little teary-eyed and I took her back to her apartment. I headed out to a party somewhere in Somerville some guy Douglas had told me about.
I was nervous cause I didn't know the person who was having the party but it turned out that my friend Mike's friend Ben lived there (I had met him at Mike's house a couple of weeks ago) and Mike was there too, even though he didn't bother going to ManRay that night, lol. To my surprise I also saw Katie there and I mixed her up a drink. I drank a bit more and got a bit silly. There was a girl there named Erika who I had seen leaving ManRay and I thought she was attractive and looked like fun but back at ManRay she pretty much ignored me. I talked to her a bit and tried out my new line that I had promised Sid that I would use that night (in exchange for a free drink). We had found it earlier at my BBQ when we were searching the web for the recipe for a red death. I don't remember what the line was exactly, but it was something like, "If you were to stand in front of a mirror holding eleven roses, you'd see twelve of the most beautiful things in the world". I told Sid that if I was actually drunk enough to use that line, I'd probably be too drunk to remember exactly what it was. That was pretty much what happened. So after that, I told her that I thought she had a beautiful singing voice and I thouhgt that she was a talented songwriter. She was flattered and asked me how I knew. I told her I could see it in her eyes, and then something about the eyes being the window to the soul. Actually, I had heard her making up songs and singing about ManRay after the club had closed.
Here is the weird part about this whole situation. At first she seemed to ignore me but I won this girl over completely with MY PERSONALITY. Yes, seriously, how messed up is that?? Somehow I ended up sitting on the couch next to her and she asked me to take off my shirt (don't ask - we were having a classical orgy, complete with virtual grapes). By the end of the night she had falled asleep in my lap with me stroking her abdomen with one hand and her neck with the other. Next to me was a guy named Josh, upon who Erika's legs were lying. He seemed to be cool, actually, but I couldn't quite figure him out, namely if he was interested in her too. I was worried that he was and as many of you know, I don't deal with competition when it comes to girls well at all -- I just don't compete and instead give up, because I know I always lose (yeah, yeah, I know, "competition" isn't exactly the right word to use, but from a guy's perspective it is like you are in fact, "competing" for a girl's attention when you first meet her). I could tell there was some chemistry there and I would have kissed her had Josh not been there next to me. We ended up just sitting there for hours and listening to a guy named Jameson talk (he's a [:a:] member just like Quiescence). He is amazing to listen to. I don't know how to describe him but he just pounded back scotch after scotch and talked and talked, emoting wildly the whole time. He reminded me a little bit of Brad Pitt's character from twelve monkeys but without the whole psychotic part. He's a really intruiging person and a great dancer and I'm happy that I'll get to hang out with him again on Friday at Quiescence's birthday party.
It was 7:30am and I had fallen asleep on the couch with Erika in my arms when Mike (the guy who lived there) came around and woke us up. There were about 5 other people still at the party. And so we stretched and got up and got ready to leave. Katie had gone home hours earlier and I learned from Jameson that he had gotten her phone number. Maybe I would have been jealous on any other day, but Jameson seemed like such a cool guy and from hearing him talk, he might be the only one I know whos life has actually been going shittier than mine, lol. He deserved it and, well, I was more interested in getting Erika's number. Josh was still there next to me when I woke up. Eria and he got up and it seemed like they are going to leave together and I'm thought... maybe he is her boyfriend and I began to think that maybe I should just give up. As we walked out the door and I turned to head to my car, she called out to me and asked me for my phone number, saying that we definitely had to hang out again. She offered her phone number too, but neither of us had a pen or paper on it (and my cell phone was smashed into bits Friday night, but that is another story). So she lead me to Josh's car where we dug around for some scrap paper. They offered to drive me back to my car, but that was kind of silly cause my car was like 30 feet back from his on a one-way street. So instead they drove me around the block. I noticed a lot of laundy, mostly women's clothing, in the back seat and I asked Josh who all these clothes belong to and he answered "my girlfriend". That cleared up the question of him and Erika -- apparently they are just friends.
Erika seemed to take forever to write her down her phone number. I sat in the car waiting for her while she was doodling or something. When I got home I looked at the paper she had given me and I saw that on the back of the paper she had drawn a big spiral and in the middle of it, in small letters she wrote the word "YES". I've been staring at it for a while, wondering if it has some kind of deeper meaning or is some kind of riddle or something, Probably its just a meaningless doodle, but I'm curious to hear what other people think. Maybe I had asked her a question in the car and she wrote down the answer? In the meantime, I'm really excited to hang out with her again, and I"m worried that I didn't really show enough enthusiasm last night (it's always too much or too little). I guess I'm gonna wait the requisite 3 days and then call her, though I'm really nervous about that. She's bound to find me much less entertaining and much more annoying when she's not drunk (lol, I am SO self-deprecating!) I'm not sure what I'm going to say to her when I do call - I do hate talking on the phone.
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Just teasin'...
I plan on coming down t' Bawstun again as soon as this weekend if I can find good people and good times.... Sid's a sweetheart and has offered to let me stay at her house....
Oo... as an FYI... Me 'n Gia broke up a while ago... we're just still good friends.... [not *GOOD* friends... like phukbuddi's (I dun't have sex) but we chill lots].
Friday!
Antihero_Wraith once again jaunts down to BAWHSTUN!
One night only!!!
[Though I may stay two if Sid will let me crash at her house...