Hello again. Sorry I haven't been updating, but no one reads this anyways. 
Finally, finally I went to ManRay today!
I learned after my last experience, that my best friend at work moonlights as a model for Eros Boutique in Boston, and they give him tons of free stuff! So after work today, I went over to his place and borrowed a pair of leather pants and a collar. The leather pants were some of the most comfortable things I've ever worn. I need a pair of my own!
ManRay was fun but kind of empty. I was there with my friend and a girl from work. For some reason he ditched us in the middle of the night and went home. I texted him later and asked him if he was having teh sex.
So it was just me and this friend. I don't know her very well at all, but she is kinda cute. She also claimed to be on the rebound and just wanted to hook up with a guy - any guy - or even a woman that night. Shes really shy though and, well, the crowd at ManRay is sort of introverted. The only ones hitting on her were a couple of guys, who were like 40+. Since she is 21, well, they were a bit old for her.
Anyways, I talked and danced with her all night. Afterwards, I offered to drive her home. No way I was going to let her ride her bike home drunk. So, I took her to Ginza in Chinatown which is open till like 4am - its one of the few places to get food all night in Boston. Anyways, we talked and ate, and omg, I am such a wuss!
I wasn't really drunk (I stopped drinking early so I could drive), and she was mostly sober, but oh... anyways, she wasn't giving me strong signals, but I wasnt giving her any signals at all.
I didnt even test the water! I can't believe myself. I guess I am way too shy. And well, I was worried about being embarassed at work, cause we work together, though not directly together. I just don't know how to deal with situations like these. I totally need to learn how to flirt. Or I need a take-charge kind-of woman.
Also, I still HATE HATE that pic of me. The baseball hat!?? And the raybans?!
I need to take a new pic, ASAP!
Finally, finally I went to ManRay today!
I learned after my last experience, that my best friend at work moonlights as a model for Eros Boutique in Boston, and they give him tons of free stuff! So after work today, I went over to his place and borrowed a pair of leather pants and a collar. The leather pants were some of the most comfortable things I've ever worn. I need a pair of my own!
ManRay was fun but kind of empty. I was there with my friend and a girl from work. For some reason he ditched us in the middle of the night and went home. I texted him later and asked him if he was having teh sex.
So it was just me and this friend. I don't know her very well at all, but she is kinda cute. She also claimed to be on the rebound and just wanted to hook up with a guy - any guy - or even a woman that night. Shes really shy though and, well, the crowd at ManRay is sort of introverted. The only ones hitting on her were a couple of guys, who were like 40+. Since she is 21, well, they were a bit old for her.
Anyways, I talked and danced with her all night. Afterwards, I offered to drive her home. No way I was going to let her ride her bike home drunk. So, I took her to Ginza in Chinatown which is open till like 4am - its one of the few places to get food all night in Boston. Anyways, we talked and ate, and omg, I am such a wuss!
I wasn't really drunk (I stopped drinking early so I could drive), and she was mostly sober, but oh... anyways, she wasn't giving me strong signals, but I wasnt giving her any signals at all.
I didnt even test the water! I can't believe myself. I guess I am way too shy. And well, I was worried about being embarassed at work, cause we work together, though not directly together. I just don't know how to deal with situations like these. I totally need to learn how to flirt. Or I need a take-charge kind-of woman.
Also, I still HATE HATE that pic of me. The baseball hat!?? And the raybans?!
I need to take a new pic, ASAP!
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Its funny, but all of those "dating advice" web sites (yeah, yeah, I know what you're thinking) tell me that once you end up in "friendship" land any chance of a more-than-friends-relationship is doomed. The "ladder theory" for example, says this. It's called ladder jumping and its very hard to do. I'm not saying that I agree with any of this but, well, it confuses me.
And considering I have such a horrible dating history, I need to be more proactive. (hey, maybe its cause I use geeky words like "proactive")