Jesus... You don't realize that you've lost weight until something comes along to grab your attention.
Since there's no record on this site of what I actually look like, I just put up 2 new pics on my profile. One is from a very recent wedding, and one is from about 5 months ago. A lot of stress has come down on me in those 5 months, plus I've been trying to lose weight anyway. Even though I've been losing fat since about February, it seems to me like I'm packing about 10-15 pounds more in the older pic. I swear I haven't lost that much ballast.
I wear contacts, and last week I put on glasses for the first time in like a year. They looked huge on me. All my pants are getting baggy. I'm not all anorexic and boney... I guess I was really getting large before.
It makes me want to start a thread on what the women here think about big guys vs. skinny guys.
(The highlights of the last 5 months include a break-up, hernia surgery, and getting laid off. All within a month of each other. There was lots of other crappy irritating drama too, but those were the big 3. The trifecta. I'm doing much better now: I'm dating, I've recovered from the surgery with no weird issues or complications, and I have a new job that's much better than my old one. Well, I'm not really dating. Just sleeping around. )
Since there's no record on this site of what I actually look like, I just put up 2 new pics on my profile. One is from a very recent wedding, and one is from about 5 months ago. A lot of stress has come down on me in those 5 months, plus I've been trying to lose weight anyway. Even though I've been losing fat since about February, it seems to me like I'm packing about 10-15 pounds more in the older pic. I swear I haven't lost that much ballast.
I wear contacts, and last week I put on glasses for the first time in like a year. They looked huge on me. All my pants are getting baggy. I'm not all anorexic and boney... I guess I was really getting large before.
It makes me want to start a thread on what the women here think about big guys vs. skinny guys.
(The highlights of the last 5 months include a break-up, hernia surgery, and getting laid off. All within a month of each other. There was lots of other crappy irritating drama too, but those were the big 3. The trifecta. I'm doing much better now: I'm dating, I've recovered from the surgery with no weird issues or complications, and I have a new job that's much better than my old one. Well, I'm not really dating. Just sleeping around. )

sadielee:
you look kinda good in both.
