I've just deactivated my okstupid account until next year (or maybe never). I realized, the more I used it, the more time I wasted looking for someone who isn't there. Damn, I can't believe it took me 200+ unanswered messages to finally figure it out! Besides, I'm better off getting my apartment cleaned up and organized while also focusing on my noise project, now that my Korg DSS-1 has an SD card drive installed. I'm looking forward to ending the rest of this strange and frustrating year on a high note (hopefully!).