abgitatz

So I was just sitting back here and cruising the net and got an IM discussion dropped in my lap... I am not really sure what to say about this one... I guess there are just times when I am completely speechless about the decisions made around me...

I am reminded of a quote used once to describe the new mother in question... "Some people just are destined to live in trailor parks."

No I didn't make this up... these things really do happen.

Yeah I really did change the names to letter for this... what can I say I know they have friends that can find this... T is the guy... and D is the chick in question.

I should say that D is really a nice girl... and T really is a pedophile that just married the (little) girl of his affections.




Pantherbot23 [12:57 AM]: bin busy with T and D having there baby last week and working on my car and doing the things I need to so I can go to college this fall and everything

Pantherbot23 [12:57 AM]: bin vary busy

Abgitatz [12:58 AM]: did you just say that T has bred?

Pantherbot23 [12:58 AM]: ya

Abgitatz [12:58 AM]: are you joking?

Abgitatz [12:59 AM]: ::lights a cig::

Pantherbot23 [12:59 AM]: baby girl 8lbs 13oz 21 inches long name Chyanna lily daves

Abgitatz [12:59 AM]: how old is T again?

Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: I know I spelled her first name wrong

Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: 30

Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: how old is she again?

Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: D will be 19 the 29th

Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: are they engaged yet?

Pantherbot23 [1:00 AM]: there married

Abgitatz [1:00 AM]: ... when did that happen?

Pantherbot23 [1:01 AM]: about a month ago

Abgitatz [1:01 AM]: shot gun wedding?

Pantherbot23 [1:01 AM]: na they didn't even tell his family or hers and they did it

Abgitatz [1:02 AM]: you sure you are still not joking?

Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: he basicly said fuck you I don't care if you want to be there... I want to make sure no one abjects

Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: nope

Pantherbot23 [1:02 AM]: D is one of my best friends... I wouldn't joke about that

Abgitatz [1:04 AM]: i am having one of those pahlaniuk moments of clarity

Pantherbot23 [1:04 AM]: you ok?

Abgitatz [1:04 AM]: yep

Pantherbot23 [1:04 AM]: ok

Abgitatz [1:05 AM]: so where are they living?

Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: I am just
wanting to see how long it will last and if to will do what I think he will and has shown me a perpencity to do

Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: his moms house

Pantherbot23 [1:05 AM]: untill his dad buys them a house

Abgitatz [1:06 AM]: gotcha

Pantherbot23 [1:06 AM]: or untill D ends up getting like 3 jobs and suports them both till she gets pregnant again

Abgitatz [1:07 AM]: he still can't work?

Pantherbot23 [1:07 AM]: well...

Abgitatz [1:08 AM]: well?

Pantherbot23 [1:08 AM]: thats something I wont get into cuz I haven't got into it with him about that yet

Pantherbot23 [1:09 AM]: lets just say I have told him where to get the jobs he can work and everything and he still doesn't have one

Abgitatz [1:09 AM]: ok, that is a no... he isn't working... let me guess though... he doesn't want a job... right?

Pantherbot23 [1:10 AM]: like I said he is not working even when I told him where to find a job

Pantherbot23 [1:11 AM]: his dad even said go looking for a house and he hasn't... It's like he wants to live with his mom

Abgitatz [1:11 AM]: she helping with the kid yet?

Pantherbot23 [1:11 AM]: only time he has looked at houses is when D finally made him and the times his dad was up from his work in the behammas

Pantherbot23 [1:12 AM]: who his mom or D?

Abgitatz [1:12 AM]: his mom

Pantherbot23 [1:13 AM]: well she will randomly buy then stuff for the baby but T is a lazy bitch and D has to keep the has sergical clean and she had an emergaqncy C section on the 19th and is still healing

Pantherbot23 [1:13 AM]: so his mom crazy

Pantherbot23 [1:14 AM]: the bitch is as crazy as alex... only dif is she can function in the real world

Abgitatz [1:14 AM]: so, i have to ask... can they really afford this kid?

Pantherbot23 [1:15 AM]: prob not but who knows

Abgitatz [1:15 AM]: arg

Pantherbot23 [1:15 AM]: right now everyone is buying things for them

Abgitatz [1:15 AM]: gotcha

Abgitatz [1:16 AM]: remind me to slap him upside the head next time i see him

Pantherbot23 [1:16 AM]: ok

Abgitatz [1:17 AM]: god that is depressing... and just when most people i know are getting their respective lives online to... and this is the chick that he got a felony over also

Pantherbot23 [1:18 AM]: well you want to know the truth of why I think he did it?

Abgitatz [1:18 AM]: sure

Pantherbot23 [1:19 AM]: he did it cuz he can go to the state and have all the shit thown out and his record whiped clean if he married he

Pantherbot23 [1:20 AM]: he got that from his lawer

Pantherbot23 [1:20 AM]: god I hate not knowing how to spell serten words

Abgitatz [1:20 AM]: good god... crafty... but i am not feeling the whole having a kid thing... hell she was what 14 when they started dating?

Abgitatz [1:21 AM]: its cool

Pantherbot23 [1:21 AM]: ya and got preg once then

Abgitatz [1:21 AM]: kids having kids

Pantherbot23 [1:21 AM]: she wants to be a mom and she wants some one to take care of her

Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: and T isn't going to do anything but get her preg..

Abgitatz [1:22 AM]: she isn't old enough to understand what she is doing

Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: and when they break up he is going to leave her with nothing

Pantherbot23 [1:22 AM]: ya well now she is growning up fast

Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: she has been sence she got preg

Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: thats all right T thought the baby was mine

Abgitatz [1:23 AM]: what?

Pantherbot23 [1:23 AM]: he still thinks I was fucking her

Abgitatz [1:24 AM]: i have no responce to that

Abgitatz [1:24 AM]: well... other then that he is using her

Pantherbot23 [1:25 AM]: she was living with me for a while to get her out of another abusive house after she left state custidy she moved in with a friends she went to school with and her mom started abusing D.. so I got her out of there and she moved in with me and while she lived her T thought we were fucking

Abgitatz [1:26 AM]: well to be fair she was sleeping in your bed dude

Pantherbot23 [1:26 AM]: dude I never had any sexual thing happin between us

Abgitatz [1:27 AM]: not saying i think anything did happen

Pantherbot23 [1:27 AM]: the closest thing to anyhing like that is we cuddled a couple of times and that was just for cumfort

Abgitatz [1:27 AM]: god this is depressing... what the hell are they thinking?

Abgitatz [1:28 AM]: ok... well i guess he is thinking he can use her back after she used him when she was younger... but what is she thinking?

Pantherbot23 [1:28 AM]: well T is thinking of paying her back trust me on that one

Abgitatz [1:28 AM]: exactly

Pantherbot23 [1:29 AM]: she really
does care for him... she just made a mistake when she was younger

Pantherbot23 [1:29 AM]: and then the person that she lived with fucked things up even more

Abgitatz [1:29 AM]: mistake in basicly blackmailing him into being in a relationship with her... and then going to the police to get him in further trouble?

Pantherbot23 [1:30 AM]: no you got your facts wrong

Abgitatz [1:30 AM]: ok, straighten me out

Pantherbot23 [1:34 AM]: she went after him but there was no black mail, when she was living with anthony's mom she didn't think email him using an email account other then Compuserve and what she didn't know about the cs account she had was anthony's mom had her completly snooped out so when she had a sepition of being preg the first time and emailed tom to tell him she didn't know that the email she sent also went to anthony's mom and then anthony's mom pressed the charges to scare T and what she didn't know was that

Pantherbot23 [1:35 AM]: the state would continue with the carges and she couldn't make them stop pressing the carges cuz she was in the custidy of the state

Abgitatz [1:36 AM]: and this is after T went to jail over her?

Pantherbot23 [1:36 AM]: I love D with all my heat but she is vary week willed when people start pressing her and she thinks there is nothing she can do

Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: that is why T went to jail

Abgitatz [1:37 AM]: how old was she again?

Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: they took that evidents and then pushed her to say he was having sex with her

Pantherbot23 [1:37 AM]: 14

Abgitatz [1:37 AM]: well he was having sex with her

Abgitatz [1:38 AM]: she isn't the virgin mother after all

Pantherbot23 [1:38 AM]: he did the dead knowing the consiquences and they got cought

Abgitatz [1:38 AM]: ummm yeah they did

Abgitatz [1:39 AM]: this entire conversation makes me want to go celebate

Pantherbot23 [1:39 AM]: actualy I found out later she had bin abused from like the age of 7 or 8 in a mental physical and sexual way

Abgitatz [1:40 AM]: dude her older sister threw a party when she got her dream job of being a register girl at food lion... thats all i really needed to know about how messed up her family was

Pantherbot23 [1:40 AM]: ya well

Pantherbot23 [1:41 AM]: D is trying to make her self better then that

Pantherbot23 [1:41 AM]: she did graduate and even being like almost 8 months preg

Abgitatz [1:41 AM]: yeah i know, trust me i am hoping she does... hell i am having trouble seeing how she could aim lower.

Abgitatz [1:42 AM]: she going to apply for college?

Pantherbot23 [1:44 AM]: she wants to but I don't know whats going on with that... she wants to be a masuse

Abgitatz [1:45 AM]: well then she should apply at Deltech

Pantherbot23 [1:45 AM]: she isn't a DE resident anymore

Abgitatz [1:46 AM]: MD?

Pantherbot23 [1:46 AM]: yup

Pantherbot23 [1:47 AM]: brb got to have a smoke

Abgitatz [1:47 AM]: ok



And what have we learned from this kids? That drama is funny beyond words if you are not involved. Plus it can even be entertaining... who needs TV... we have the human race dancing like monkeys!

Quote of the day. "Most people are only good for producing children that will one day ask my kid do you want fries with that."

And now because I have to ask... any comments?


11:51 AM: And now I get two interesting things for a wake this thsi morning. A new set from Apnea. Who I think rocks And I also get an e-mail from an ex saying she is moving far far away soon. Life is good. I have a feeling class will be cancelled today, and I will end up at Brewhaha drinking chi and reading a good book. Gotta love summer.

2:53 PM: just got an interesting quote from an e-mail. "No one will believe you solved this problem in one day - we've been working on it for months. Go act busy for a few weeks and I'll let you know when it's time to tell them."