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holy fucking new year. ended up hooking up with my best friend. i've wanted to get in her pants for years but always figured she saw me as a non-sexual talking teddy bear. i never tried anything before because i was afraid of fucking up the friendship, and this girl is too amazing to lose from my life. she asked me a couple of times if i'm ok with this and if there would be any weirdness, and made it clear she wasn't looking for a relationship.

so i'm kinda freaking out now for a few reasons. i really want to talk to her but am not sure if it was a drunken horney moment on her part that she doesn't want to talk about, so i'm not sure if i should bring it up or wait for her to.

i also didn't bring my A-game. i was a whole lot drunk, stunned by confustion/surprise, bad posistioning, burping like mad from the champagne, and my jaw kinda locked up near the finish line. it was to the point that i think she got off. don't think i fucked up on the recieving end. we didn't have a condom, and i was shitfaced, so that's as far as the action went. i was about to pass out so returning to her nether regions was out of the question. did get some quality cuddling in though.

so in the interest of getting a female perspective on this (since i usually ask her this stuff) throw me some answers if you would.

1) talk to her about it or wait for her to bring it up?
2) got any tips for making a friendly hookup work out well?
3) is there any forgiveness for sexual mediocrity?
4) my initial reaction was to send flowers, or at least call the day after, but in the name of not making things different, i didn't. was this a mistake?