So I have this best friend.
We've been friends since my first day of high school, 11 years ago.
I'm just not feeling very close to her anymore.
I don't feel we have the same interests or mindset anymore.
I just don't admire her anymore. Sure, she's a sweetheart and very loyal and genuine.
But other than that.. I really want to surround myself with people who I either want to be like, or who want the same things out of life as I do (goal-wise, fashion-wise, interest-wise, friendship-wise) or at least have similar outlooks on life (Law of Attraction, anyone?).
Is it bad that I only called her after a month and a half after I guilted myself into it, not because I couldn't wait to talk to her?
We've been friends since my first day of high school, 11 years ago.
I'm just not feeling very close to her anymore.
I don't feel we have the same interests or mindset anymore.
I just don't admire her anymore. Sure, she's a sweetheart and very loyal and genuine.
But other than that.. I really want to surround myself with people who I either want to be like, or who want the same things out of life as I do (goal-wise, fashion-wise, interest-wise, friendship-wise) or at least have similar outlooks on life (Law of Attraction, anyone?).
Is it bad that I only called her after a month and a half after I guilted myself into it, not because I couldn't wait to talk to her?
Anyway, hair stuff aside, I still just feel years past her.
But it's hard to find loyal, genuinely good friends.
Or is it?? maybe I have just been telling myself that for too long.
Maybe it's time to start visualizing the kinds of friends I want more often.
