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honest question.

Whats wrong with the fact that I've got a kid?

I see nothing wrong with this.

I've discovered it makes me less desirable for some reason. I would think this would be the exact opposite. It shows that not only am I dedicated and responsible, but that I am capeable of love beyond the superficial bullshit of "hooking up"

One would think those kinds of traits would be desirable when choosing a person to associate with, as a friend or in the persuit of a possible romance.

I guess in most cases me having a child is like me having a cancerous growth.

I think that's bullshit.