people are trying to date me and...i don't really want to even put myself out there.
he says he still cares for me and that he misses...
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I think I have 2 of some other things that I don't need...
Probably testicles, too - but I'm gathering you aren't entirely in need of them..
I think I have an extra pancreas, don't I?
That and my appendix, done and done. All yours! I can send that regular post, right?
how do you transform a relationship where he "is thinking about me and cares a lot about me" into one where he actually loves me. because i love him. i just hate to waste my time with someone who will just get tired of me or meet someone who really *sparks* with...
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It's hard to tell with these things, and there isn't a "way" to transform. Coming from the opposite side o' this - I met my spouse in college, dated & broke up off & on for a while. I always felt she was more "into me" than the other way around. But . . . it was nice, comfortable, stable, and sane. Hell, even when I proposed I had a few misgivings.
We've been married for going on 15 years now, and I can honestly say she's the greatest, most incredible, awe inspiring person/thing in my life. Ever. The point, I guess - as much as I ever have one, is that I can maybe see a little of what my wife might have felt/worried about me in your post, & while I can't say that your guy is me (lucky you) my advice is that if this is something you want, then, by all means, give it a shot. If you still don't know where you're at [insert time frame of your convenience here] DTMFA.
Sooooo,
1. Give him his week, hell, give'em two.
2. At the end of that time, go out, have fun. What that entails is up to you. The next day, sit down and have a heart to heart. Judge him by his answers and actions then.
3. For now, get the hell out of the house and have some fun. You seem like you don't have a hard time finding fun places to go. You can't live your life waiting for someone. If he really feels you are worth it, he won't have you waiting long.
so i stopped by here to check out Vivid's new set. i would advise that you do the same. it's quite sexy, like...
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Happy Birthday.
Happy birthday!
him: we should talk soon also...kinda figured out what i am thinking about us
me:
dude...some words i never want to hear. i swear to god...those words make me physically ill.
so...i guess we'll see what happens. .....................
what kind of life is this anyways
And if it hasn't yet, does it help that you made me smile?
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in my new apartment now, planning to have at least one visitor in time for the new year (Ilyaxous ahem) to take some photos of luxurious, fabulous Ferndale, Michigan. in the United States, near Detroit, for anyone that is curious.
still at Wayne. still doing Accounts Payable. still single, and lookin' to party, just like many of the girls out...
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Friend me on facebook! i am on and off there all day long at work, so help to entertain me with the minutia of your everyday lives. i know my crap is usually pretty entertaining...
also, there are a bunch of Dirty Show 10.5 pictures that i don't feel like resizing and putting up here...if you are interested in that kind of thing,...
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this coming Friday, the 25th we will be playing the Under The Sea Extravaganza at the Havana Lounge (of Columbus, Ohio) with Viva! & The Velvet Hearts! i will put up the flier if SOMEONE would just send it to me.... i know there is an SG event down in Ohio that whole weekend, with Cedar...
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