ha! well, i told you all to get off my case after that last journal entry, and then no one left a post! 
so here's an honest to goodness no bullshit update on my life. i'm gonna spill all the beans. you ready?
my living situation: you know, for that old adage, "the only thing you can count on in life is change", this current...
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so here's an honest to goodness no bullshit update on my life. i'm gonna spill all the beans. you ready?
my living situation: you know, for that old adage, "the only thing you can count on in life is change", this current...
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i want to be kissed.
in other news...
here's an article from the ny times. boys, you know i love and respect you, but your gender has been the source of extreme frustration lately, so i found this article pretty satisfying.
enjoy ladies.
EDIT: so here's an adendum, because some of you kids are getting way too uppity.
lighten up guys. this is from the...
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in other news...
here's an article from the ny times. boys, you know i love and respect you, but your gender has been the source of extreme frustration lately, so i found this article pretty satisfying.
enjoy ladies.
EDIT: so here's an adendum, because some of you kids are getting way too uppity.
lighten up guys. this is from the...
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oa55:
Despite its damaged ego, my "Y" chromosome says... .
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cast:
Oh, now its ON, baby! You've got me writing an essay today.
You can no more explain a man by his chromosomes than you can a woman by her breast size. Only a few decades ago, our reason for keeping women out of the workplace was that they were assumed to be built for childbearing rather than thinking. There have also been theories of the Jewish nose and the African forehead. Human worth and the emotional landscape are far too complex for these simplistic explanations. Its too great a leap from genetics to emotions, and I feel sorry for any man who believes that he is pure and uncomplicated, being made of just a single kind of cell throughout. His is a life half lived. Theres so much subtlety to see and to celebrate in the human experience, but we wont see it if we keep objectifying each other. So heres a kiss for your wonderful complicated soul thats far more than the sum of its parts. *smmooooch*
You can no more explain a man by his chromosomes than you can a woman by her breast size. Only a few decades ago, our reason for keeping women out of the workplace was that they were assumed to be built for childbearing rather than thinking. There have also been theories of the Jewish nose and the African forehead. Human worth and the emotional landscape are far too complex for these simplistic explanations. Its too great a leap from genetics to emotions, and I feel sorry for any man who believes that he is pure and uncomplicated, being made of just a single kind of cell throughout. His is a life half lived. Theres so much subtlety to see and to celebrate in the human experience, but we wont see it if we keep objectifying each other. So heres a kiss for your wonderful complicated soul thats far more than the sum of its parts. *smmooooch*
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icy:
Ahahaahahahhaaaaahaaaa that's ACE!
Oh....I'm actually crying laughing. Literaly. I'm trying to hold it in as it's 4am and everyone else is asleep but I just can't!
Oh...mercy.
Thanks SO much for that
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Oh....I'm actually crying laughing. Literaly. I'm trying to hold it in as it's 4am and everyone else is asleep but I just can't!
Oh...mercy.
Thanks SO much for that
[Edited on Mar 21, 2005 7:27PM]
bombshellbetty:
Thanks for the heads up on the impostor, we're on it!
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rosemarie:
Aw, there he is! I just love your doggie. 
Please move here. Austin is great, and people are so outgoing and warm. I still look behind me to see who they are talking to.
I still wish we could've done that double set. I can still picture how cool it woud've been..funny too!
Don't tell anyone the idea, maybe we can still swing it at some point.
p.s.everyone loves the owl wallet. It holds my cell phone and $. I take it for walks with me around this sweet sunny neighborhood.
Miss you,
Rose
Please move here. Austin is great, and people are so outgoing and warm. I still look behind me to see who they are talking to.
I still wish we could've done that double set. I can still picture how cool it woud've been..funny too!
Don't tell anyone the idea, maybe we can still swing it at some point.
p.s.everyone loves the owl wallet. It holds my cell phone and $. I take it for walks with me around this sweet sunny neighborhood.
Miss you,
Rose
dave_h:
hey have you ever eaten at the arabic restaurant Amira in the Mission? they have belly dancing. I was just there the other night and seemed cool but I haven't tried the food yet. just wondering if you knew anything about it.
answer me.
1. what are you grateful for?
2. what is your favorite sign of spring?
3. who is your best animal friend?
4. what would i never guess about your parents?
5. what are you inviting in?
1. what are you grateful for?
2. what is your favorite sign of spring?
3. who is your best animal friend?
4. what would i never guess about your parents?
5. what are you inviting in?
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papawheelie:
see above. i prolly wont go this week though, violet isn't too keen on hanging out at lesbian bars
[Edited on Mar 10, 2005 6:25PM]
[Edited on Mar 10, 2005 6:25PM]
daggers:
hmmmmm. a thanks for soda? wierd? i think so!!!! so good to see you again!!!!
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funktion:
hi so when do we get to see this documentry 
hope the grey is giving way to a bit of the blue sky and rainbow nights!
so when do we get to see this documentry
hope the grey is giving way to a bit of the blue sky and rainbow nights!
tahliana:
yay yay thanks for the offer grrl, makes me a very smiley grrrrrrrl! i joined the sgsf group too! its ALL ON! im really looking forward to SF, it sounds like the kind of place i could fall in love with. and what better person to stay with than YOU! ohhhhhhh i cant wait. glad you liked my pics, yours are awesome too, i love the makeup on that second one, so doll-like its uncanny. 
anyways yes im not in hospital, ive become pretty bad @ updating, been busy i guess. and spending a fair bit of time with the boy. please forgive me in advance if i am a bit mopey over there... leaving everything and everyone behind is going to be bloody hard.
but anyway enough on me, i hope your going well and you are smiling and braving that big world out there! xoxoxo
thanks for the offer grrl, makes me a very smiley grrrrrrrl! i joined the sgsf group too! its ALL ON! im really looking forward to SF, it sounds like the kind of place i could fall in love with. and what better person to stay with than YOU! ohhhhhhh i cant wait. glad you liked my pics, yours are awesome too, i love the makeup on that second one, so doll-like its uncanny.
anyways yes im not in hospital, ive become pretty bad @ updating, been busy i guess. and spending a fair bit of time with the boy. please forgive me in advance if i am a bit mopey over there... leaving everything and everyone behind is going to be bloody hard.
but anyway enough on me, i hope your going well and you are smiling and braving that big world out there! xoxoxo
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coushti:
yeah. Its really starting itch bad now. Even messing with my sleep.
horton:
"where are my legs": that's fabulous!
that's magical and it's out any logic of the universe
damn......
that's magical and it's out any logic of the universe
damn......
i am the queen of hearts.
and this is my day.
i am here to celebrate love, and i've got the big fat tender squishy heart to prove it.
i'm taking a cue from sixsixty and making the whole world my valentine.
and this most definitely means you.
i can't help but love. i try. i pretend. i put up a great front that looks...
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and this is my day.
i am here to celebrate love, and i've got the big fat tender squishy heart to prove it.
i'm taking a cue from sixsixty and making the whole world my valentine.
and this most definitely means you.
i can't help but love. i try. i pretend. i put up a great front that looks...
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pinuppixie:
this:
we're the only mammals who walk upright, exposing our soft bellies and hearts. whenever i'm depressed, i can't stand up straight. my whole chest collapses, shoulers slumping forward, trying to protect what hurts.
is the most honest line ever.
we're the only mammals who walk upright, exposing our soft bellies and hearts. whenever i'm depressed, i can't stand up straight. my whole chest collapses, shoulers slumping forward, trying to protect what hurts.
is the most honest line ever.
glass_cat:
Convenient. I missed your message on valentine's day (when I was doing fine anyhow) but find it now, when I'm feeling a bit tired and glum. I must admit I haven't talked to you before, but I figure if you send a nice message out, a thank you back is more than fair.
Thanks
Thanks
ha! lol
no no you guys, you misread my last entry. the place WAS too good to be true. that's what i meant about the low ceilings and no windows and too ugly to be redecorated. even for only 4 hours of housecleaning a week, and no rent, i STILL don't want to live there. it was a dungeon.
SO. what i need good luck...
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no no you guys, you misread my last entry. the place WAS too good to be true. that's what i meant about the low ceilings and no windows and too ugly to be redecorated. even for only 4 hours of housecleaning a week, and no rent, i STILL don't want to live there. it was a dungeon.
SO. what i need good luck...
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outthere:
great to see/meet you last night - hope to stay in touch - it was my first in person SG event and had a great time - hope there wil be many more...and what am i doing up at this hour? god(the hypothetical one) only knows....
[Edited on Feb 13, 2005 7:18AM]
[Edited on Feb 13, 2005 7:18AM]
subrosa:
To continue with the trend of the above three posts, it was very nice to meet you last night. Emy says hello and thanks for the set tips.
Take care!
Take care!
well, i asked for luck yesterday because i thought i may have found my dream house situation. for 4-8 hours of housecleaning a week, i could have the lower level unit of a beautifully restored victorian.
beautifully restored, except for the servants quarters that had no window and low ceilings and ugly flourescent lighting and couldn't have been made inhabitable no matter how much i...
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beautifully restored, except for the servants quarters that had no window and low ceilings and ugly flourescent lighting and couldn't have been made inhabitable no matter how much i...
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sfdeep:
hope that works out for you. i hear you're going to be at Minna on Sat. i look forward to meeting you
scylla:
Oh, wow! I hope that it works out, darling! That sounds like a real dream.
wish me luck today around 6pm pacific standard time. 
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retroactivwe:
Aaaah! I'm late!
sempi:
Missed it! Hope everything went well.
AAAAAGH! i have hives! HIIIIIVVVVVVEEEESSSSSS!!
this morning i made myself a delightful little breakfast of buckwheat blueberry waffles, with syrup, and bee pollen sprinkled all over the top. just bought some new yesterday...i had been putting it in my smoothies, but hadn't had any for about a month.
as i'm eating my little snack, i notice a peculiar....itchy vibration all down my throat, in...
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this morning i made myself a delightful little breakfast of buckwheat blueberry waffles, with syrup, and bee pollen sprinkled all over the top. just bought some new yesterday...i had been putting it in my smoothies, but hadn't had any for about a month.
as i'm eating my little snack, i notice a peculiar....itchy vibration all down my throat, in...
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papawheelie:
is there some irony to the whole bee/hive thing or what
well that sucks. sorry you had to deal with that.
*love*
well that sucks. sorry you had to deal with that.
*love*
retroactivwe:
Not such a fan of the Hives. The Strokes are OK, tho.
I went through a similiar situation recently.
moved in with my boyfriend(he asked me to move in), he broke up with me a month late, the next day i immediately found a sublet that was to start in three weeks. so i had to sleep on the couch until then and put up with the humilation BUT one week into it- he brought a girl over. a girl he was dating. while I was still living there. it was one of the meanest things anyone has ever done to me. and when I confronted him- he said he didnt owe me anything and that he could have kicked me out the very day he broke up with me. charming right?
I really hope your situation takes a turn around. Im sending you happy karma (whatever that means.) since Ive recently felt the pain, I wish there was something I could do. My friends offered me their couch to sleep on when i left- without that i would have been completely lost. i would offer you a couch to sleep on if you lived near me. even though you would probally be like- umm. i dont know you so no thanks.
good luck. youre awesome and I hope you find something soon.
<3