2014 can suck my...

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this year has been nothing but horrible. It started with my step dad going to rehab and then getting real sick and having to be induced into a coma and then my grandpa died and just last week I had to put my best friend in the entire world to sleep. My 5 year old pit bull "Hilikus" I got him when he was only...
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smashbase:

I'm so sorry hun. I hope things start getting better for you. 

softnsweet:

Grief sucks. Pets give us so much.

I want to get closer to all of you!

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so with that being said I would love if you could follow me on Instagram so I could follow you back to get to know all of you a little bit better!! Plus who doesn't love extra followers. Specially all you hopeful ladies! Maybe do some shoutout so we could all get our names out there a little better! My IG name is @sololoba...
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sololoba:

Also if you do follow me. Comment on a pic and tell me that your from the site so I know! 

_prisma_:

I'm going to follow you now!  I'm Electriclightbody :)

2014...

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So far 2014 has been insane!! I finally turned 21! wooooo hoo! (even though I have been going to bars since I was 16.. shhhh) My step father is in Las Vegas for Rehab which is an awesome thing that he is finally getting help! I am getting my bartending license in hopes to raise some money for a new computer so I can finally...
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davi87:

Flip85 is right about the contact thing. I find it amazing you asked guys for advice on other guys. Many women make this mistake, but so many guys make the mistake of asking other guys about women... As for your ex, this is almost a genderless issue. It just seems he sees you moving on in your life without him and a part of him that retains any feelings or attraction doesn't want to let go. It's like the scenario you only want what you can't have and you only want it once you don't have it. Once you do have it, it's old news and you don't care. It's very crushing sadly. It makes it hard for you to completely get over him. You have to remember he chose to leave and wanted to move on. Nobody is completely innocent in relationships and both people take some fault, but it sounds like he was the one largely causing you problems if he was selfish. You both had different paths. You have to make it clear to him he can't come around anymore and keep bugging you. You are moving on. I think he knows how you feel and how it plays with your emotions and he is using that against you. Essentially playing games. It's making it very hard for you to move on. You need him out of your life so you can fully heal and move on. Based on what you wrote, I can tell it was very serious and you were very invested both emotionally and physically with him. So it will take a long time. Wont be easy. What you had is over now. It's very rare that people cross paths again and things work out to that 'fairytale ending'. That is really for the movies. Rare it happens. Sometimes we meet people, our paths cross and then we head out on different paths. It sucks. Be strong. Keep busy and hang out with friends. Always have hobbies and enjoy doing things you like to. Best way to meet people is to get out and do things. You can always message me if you want to talk more about it. Keep your head up. This site is full of amazing people with great advice on such subjects. 

davi87:

Sorry for the long novel. I just wanted to give some solid advice. Glad your life is starting to turn around. Hope all these great things keep coming your way and things turn around. You'll be a fantastic bar tender when you get the hang of it. Guys like to hit and they like to tip even more generously. haha. 

Lo Siento

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hello all my lovely loves. Sorry I haven't been very active lately. I've been working too much. Tomorrow is my First day off since before christmas. Had tons of family drama going on. Then my phone shit out. I am now the proud parent of the iphone 5s. Lol. And I also got "sololoba" tattooed on my knuckles. So a lot has changed...
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smashbase:

I wanna see the new tattoo! Also, we should try to shoot in January. I'll text you soon! 

Well never be royals...

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besides beings obsessed with Lorde I have had an interesting few days! I got featured on the Hopeful Suicide Girls Instagram!!! So exciting! I really appreciate all the love and support I have gotten from each and every one of you! It truly means a lot to me. And I got a shout out on fan page too! Now I just need to get my...
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softnsweet:

looking forward to a new set.

thecresp:

You will be pink really soon!

Pupppppy!

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well it's been an exciting week so far. I rescued an adorable 5 month old pitbull puppy from evil people who trapped it in a garage and didn't feed nor love it. And I already found a loving home for him!!! He's all white with a black spot over his eye. Just like the dog from little rascals! I'm so excited...
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sololoba:

Yep yep. I've been working with animals for awhile. But when I moved out of the city I took this shoe store job. And now I'm managing it. And it pays well. I actually want to go to veterinary school. But I need to save up. 

chefexcellence:

If your current position is paying well then you might want to take advantage of that and start saving. 

Fry-day!

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hello all! So the past week I have been going through all my old photo albums and old clothes and getting pretty nostalgic, I've been in this funk because I look at all these memories and think "I remember that day" or "that outfit!" Or "whatever happened to that kid" and it makes me upset because in that moment I never knew any future...
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chefexcellence:

Those feelings of nostalgia for the days when things might have been simpler but not necessarily better, I am sure that everyone has those feelings at one time or another. The only real difference is the items that might trigger that feeling. For me it might be when I browse my old comic book collection but to me the far worse thing is when I watch TV or a movie or hear a new song and I realize that most everything now is complete shit compared to the way they were when I was younger. The most important of course is to have no regrets and it seems as though you have accomplished that. Normally if I hear someone mention a food that sounds good to me I will ask for a recipe but I think I will leave the fried oreo eating to you. 

sololoba:

Hahahaha I suppose your right. I guess the thought of aging scares me. And fried Oreos are amazingg especially  with vanilla ice cream!! 😍

Love love loveeeee

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I just wanted to thank everybody who has supported me and been there for me. Whether we've met or chatted on here. I really appreciate it. I'm so happy to be a part of something so unique and beautiful. I love each and every one of you. Now go follow me Instagram!! :) @sololoba

softnsweet:

You are welcome. Love your set.

chefexcellence:

Your set is one of my instant favorites and it deserves far more attention. 

HALLLOWEEEEN!

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whoa. Still getting used to the new site. I love it!! Also I don't know if I have mentioned before how obsessed I am with Halloween. I've been carving pumpkins and decorating and visiting haunted places. Love love love anything halloween. I just finished putting my costume together today too. I'm wearing sexy black lingerie but I'm going to wear a...
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chefexcellence:

Halloween is my favorite time of the year, both for the day itself and the weather is so nice not to mention the beauty that fall brings with the change in the trees. Is there any chance you might share some pictures of yourself in costume? In regards to getting more connected, try commenting on blogs and sets and join some groups that interest you.

pascipio:

Love your set!  Love your lbd, your pretty lingerie, the location.  You are gorgeous!  Hallowe'en is  the best time of the year.

Wednesday Oct 02, 2013

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Woooo. It's been a bit since I've been on here. Missed y'all. Not much has been new except tht I am hopefully doing another shoot next week. It's gunna be a Halloween theme considering Halloween is the best holiday ever!!! Also my shoot debuts in 26 days!!! I can't wait. I need some more ideas on another shoot for the...
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kennedie:

Fiend<333

sheer:

thanks for your comment on my set love <3 <3