pandara

Hopefully all of the uteruses in question cooperate with your wishes and you have a wonderful food coma induced day

The bottom line is always what is best for the kids, and it sucks, but you need to issue him an ultimatum.
Much love sweetie

This is the BEST THING you could do for your kids. Naturally it will be hard for them; however, as someone who had a father who did have a drinking problem, I am thankful to this day for my mom standing up to my dad and giving him ultimatum, and am grateful that my father chose my brother, mother and I over the bottle. It's not easy, but really you are going to be helping your children and you ex by telling him he needs to get his shit together.
Good luck lady

1. document all contacts you have with the police and other authorities.

2. as the kids start to get older, have that talk with them about responsibility. what is responsible drinking, stuff like that.

3. he ever is drunk around the children and wants to take them anywhere, call the cops. my dad a few times showed up drunk, my mom refused to let us go see him. he argued at times, she called the police who took him away (due to his drunkedness). and it was documented why he could not see us.

good luck...its a tough situation to be in. talk to Child Protective Services of the state you live in, they might have information. the hotline number should be in the phone book, and they will answer questions for you.

What kind of sorry fucker would endanger his own children like that? That is something I would address to the courts immediately. CPS is woefully ineffective in most instances, but if you file an emergency hearing over the matter, the court can strip him of his parental rights, and the state might bring charges of felony child endangerment or child abuse on top of everything else.

Just look at all of the paper that you can use for your
bloody nose. Should stop the flow fairly well.
Try not to get writers cramp.

hate it, I had to do it too when I coached soccer , puke indeed

Yay for great days!
The wind was insane...

How does the wind make your nose bleed?

Here you go.

So as long as your movin' it's all right.

yay, pandara. get some good sleep.

Ahhh, Friday the 13th strikes again.
Rest while you can.
Enjoy.

What is for dinner tonight honey? As long as there is beer, I will be just fine

It is a decent day when you can have supper at home.
I trust that the unexpected stayed far away.
It must feel good to be back on your feet.

That is a perfect age to start out. I started playing when I was about 13, and my teacher said I should have started when I was about 9 or10. I didn't realize I was going to the damned Jedi Academy
Tell him to keep practicing his scales and get a metronome

God as a personal belief is one thing.
When god A is better than anything else
and you'd best belive too, is what I rail against.
Once I worked with an annoying jesus freak,
finally told him: "Look I'll fight to the death for your Right
to belive what you will, just do the same for me".
He twigged and was tolerable to be around after that.
Al did post an amazeing musician. Good that your guy saw it,
to see the possibilities of the instrament.

Some friends are coming in from out of town tomorrow, and I will be damned if I will let this kick my ass I am an awful sick boy. I usually scrub my entire house when I have to stay home sick from work. I always feel as if I am slacking when it happens.
I hope you feel better quickly hun

hope you are on the mend babe....

Hi hon. My acct has been reactivated too.

Hope you all feel better.

MDF speaks the truth!

Great to see you're back.
Being voted of off the 'island of the mainstream' is a good thing.
My daughter's mother is born again; so she insisted on haveing A. over this
past weekend. Poor kid didn't get to go Trick or Treating, and passed out candy
at home with no costume. A. was looking forword to going to the party I
went to.
They're made for teeenagers, but not for helicopter parents.
Sleep is a luxury. Grab it when you can.